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Stump, Nathan (USAILS)
From: nicole_johnson2010lol <nicole_johnson2010lol@yahoo.com>
Sent: Monday, November 26, 2012 12:11 PM
To: Williamlandrum0009
Subject: Re: 8wonders
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From: benjohnson2244@yahoo.com
Date: Mon, 26 Nov 2012 18:09:16 +0000
To: Nicole Johnson<nicole_johnson2010lol@yahoo.com>; <Williamlandrum0009@yahoo.com>
ReplyTo: benjohnson2244@yahoo.com
Subject: Re: 8wonders
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From: Nicole Johnson <nicole_johnson2010lol@yahoo.com>
Date: Sun, 11 Nov 2012 05:19:34 -0800 (PST)
To: <Benjohnson2244@yahoo.com>
Subject: 8wonders
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NOTE: FORMATS 1 – 5 ARE TO BE USED ON THE DATING SITE.
1. (IF YOU ARE THE FIRST TO EMAIL HER, SEND THIS)
Wow! You spark up my entire thinking faculty. I am ready to stop searching, and who knows, the rose in my heart could be
yours (lol). Drop a note / email address and I’ll reply instantly. Just you may wish to email too, my email benjohnson6690 at
G.M.A.I.L dot cum You on my mind.
Ben
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2. (IF SHE HAS A LOVELY PROFILE BUH HAVE NO PIC)
Honestly, you have a very lovely profile and I wish I could just see your picture. There is this feeling that tells me you are as
beautiful as your profile. Though what matters is the internal beauty but I would still like to see your picture. Kindly send me
one to my gmail account at ‘biggoldenben’? I am interested in getting to know more about you.
Cheers!
Ben.
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3. (IF SHE SENDS YOU A WINK OR EMAIL FIRST, SEND THIS)
Topic: Hello My 101% Match
Hey, how are you doing today? Wow was the first thing I said when I went through your picture / profile and I wonder why a
woman like you is still single. Perhaps, all the men around you are blind (lol). I think we are probably looking for real stuff on
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here… We can hook up and hopefully, be wonderful soul mates… A little about myself. Hmmm, its no doubt I’m a very nice
man and when people meet me, they sense it before long. I love epic movies cos I love adventure, stories of the ancient times
and anything related to real life story. Family is what I cherish most in life cos family is it that holds the present, the future and
generations to come; blood is certainly thicker than water… I love family a lot! The wise saying that “IF YOU CAN’T FLY, RUN;
IF U CAN’T RUN, WALK; IF YOU CAN’T WALK, CRAWL; BY ALL MEANS, KEEP MOVING” seems the best saying in my
world and that is why I never look back. Well, the only thing lagging in my life now is that lovely woman that will follow me to
my dream land. I believe ‘ONLY THOSE WHO SEEKER, FIND’, and that is why I want to get to know you. I prefer direct email
contact cos I don’t want to come on this site all the time. Kindly email me on my yahoo account at ‘benjohnson2244’ or leave
your email address. Sometimes, we are dump-founded to answer love related matters cos love is beyond human thinking. It’s
a natural thing from God Himself. Hope to hear from u asap. Cheers!
Ben
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4. (IF SHE’S COMPLAINING ABOUT DISTANCE, TRY THIS)
Well, I do believe it is too early to discuss distance because wherever I find my true love is where I would live for the rest of my
life. If you find a wicked love close to you and a true love far away, I bet you would wait for the true love to come rather than go
for the close wicked love that will end up hurting your feelings. True love knows no bound nor distance nor limit. It doesn’t need
a map either cos it will always find its way. There is something in me that wants to continue with you and for your information,
this is my time on a dating site in my whole life. We should get to know each other and see where life leads us. I am matured
enough and I know what I want in life. I mean I am looking for a relationship that would be my last till my dieing days. I’ve got a
million words to say to you but I would prefer a better communication via personal emails as I wouldn’t like to come on a dating
site all the time. I am a one woman man and so I rather get going with you and you alone. Looking forward to your response /
email. Cheers!
Ben
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5. (IF SHE REPLIES BUT UNWILLING TO RELEASE HER EMAIL)
Hi ……,
Your quick response has really made my day and I am so happy about it. Each time I log on this site, I see over 10 new
women winking but I really don’t like it cos I’m a one woman man; I hate cheats and I have never done that in my whole days
of living. Please if you can help me stop coming to this site, I would so much appreciate it. I have got a million words to say to
you but not any more on this site. Kindly email me at my gmail account, ‘benjohnson2244’ or give me your email address.
Looking forward to your swift response.
Ben.
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6. (IF SHE DOES NOT GIVE HER EMAIL AND TALK OF PHONE CALLS, SEND THIS)
Hi ……,
Your quick response has really made my day and I am so happy about it. Each time I log on this site, I see over 10 new
women winking but I really don’t like it cos I’m a one woman man; I hate cheats and I have never done that in my whole days
of living. Please if you can help me stop coming to this site, I would so much appreciate it. I have got a million words to say to
you but not any more on this site. Kindly email me at my gmail account, ‘biggoldenben’ or give me your email address.
Phone is good but email is better because email has reference while phone does not. When you read messages, you can go
back there any time in the future and read it all over again but phone calls allow words to disappear into the air. Don’t get me
wrong, I would love to hear your voice but I think it’s better we start this way.
Looking forward to your swift response.
Ben.
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(ONCE YOU HAVE HER EMAIL, MAKE SURE THIS IS THE FIRST THING YOU SEND TO HER BUT IF SHE EMAIL YOU
TO YOUR PERSONAL EMAIL FIRST, PROCEED TO FB)
FA}
Topic: Ben From Ourtime
Hi Angel …..,
I’m so excited to read from you so soon. Please confirm you receive this message so I could send more about me. I am
looking for my second half, a woman to spend the remaining seconds of my life with.
Waiting to here from you,
Smiles~
Ben.
Send This On Dating Site: Hi there, I did sent you an email already. Please keep in touch on there. Cheers!
Hello ….,
I am so happy to read from you and most importantly, to know we are both looking for the same thing in life. Where do I start
from? Really, it is disturbing to go on that dating site to see how much people appreciate love, but yet, we have to go the extra
mile to get this great status. I have a beautiful home in stockton,CA and seeks a beautiful angel, both inward and outward.
Forgive my manners, my name is Ben Johnson, a global contractor.I own my construction company I deal basically in oil
platforms, rig constructions, renovations, over water bridges, interior decors and some art works. Trust me, I can add to your
beauty (lol). But I am really thinking of hanging the hat this year. Been through many ups and downs in life, yet, I am blessed
in some other ways. I mean after getting to the top of success, I have come to realize that we are nothing without a partner. I
mean someone who would stand by me no matter the situation. A woman who I can say, she alone has the right to be
womanly irritating to me (lol). A witch who would protect me like a lioness would do her cub (lol).
And I can promise to protect her beyond all vices. A woman who tells me, honey, you can do it, no matter what I want to do. I
have really worked hard in the past 12 yrs to get to this height.
I have seen faces of women on that site, many of whom have been taken for granted, many of whom are not being
reciprocated, but I have come with a good news and a bad news. The good news is, I am here to pick my woman to make
happy, my second half, my best friend, my co-pilot, but the bad news is, I have only one woman to do this for (lol).
I saw something in your face, something that made my heart pause to read you, something that tickles in the heart, could that
be love at first sight? Maybe we could find that out (lol). I’m talking about faith here cos when feelings are so powerful, it’s as if
some forces beyond your control are guiding you to someone who can make you happy beyond your wildest dreams. I hope
we can now have a direct communication via email cos I do not want to go on a dating site ever again.
Ben
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Topic: Hello Angel …..,
I got your email and I am glad you did wrote. Your email means a lot to me. It shows how real and ready you are. I have been
in NV for only one month as I used to own a house in Coral Springs, FL until something in me tells me its not my end point;
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something that wants me to relocate. I sold that house and bought a new one in stockton,CA
That was my first time on a dating site and you are the first woman I choose to communicate with. I have now decided to stop
visiting the site. I hate to communicate with more than one woman at a time. I rather focus on us and hope this be the last
chapter of our love life.
I must tell you this secret, I have a wonderful heart, when I am in a state to choose among many, I let my heart do it and it has
never been wrong. There are millions of women on that dating site, I joined and I was so hopeful that despite the number of
women, I will certainly go for my own destined woman. My heart never go wrong and when it pushes me to you, I knew I was
going the right path. So glad you are one of my kind, we are both open minded and ready to fall in love in the hands of that
wonderful partner.
I guess you should truly know who I am. I don’t really know how this works but here is an exclusive. If at my age I do not know
what I want and when to say it, then what would I be? When a wise man sees he has probably spent about half of his time in
life already, he begins to assess his main goals in life. What could be more important than a happy ending? A man needs to
live his life full of joy and happiness, no matter his achievements, he is reduced to nothing if he has no crown to complete him
and that is a woman to call his own wife and best friend. A woman who knows that even while arguing they still need to hold
hands. A woman whom I can call a partner in crime (lol). A woman whom you can tell anything and everything. How could you
think anything can make you happier in life than finding a love that knows no bound. To make you know more about me, I will
break this down into segments and it would be like a case study. If you ever had a French kiss, I bet you would be happy to
know I have a French background; English is my second language so I have an accent. All my life, I have a story of only one
woman to tell. And if I were told I would be on a dating site someday, I will never believe it. Sometimes in 2002, I lived happily
with Mary, a wonderful angel; a wife any man would pray for and two blessed beautiful kids that stood as my shinning glory.
But it is so sad to say they are no more! I hate to say this but I lost them in a fatal accident. I watched them lying dead in a pool
of blood!!! As much as I adore my family, the inevitable death took them all in one day and life suddenly turned around my
table of great joy into a terrible agony. Such is life! Sometimes we pass through situations we do not have control of and we
only do nothing but bear whatever it is. I just want a woman who would be my best friend and everything. You know someone
whom we would still love each other more as the days pass by, even when we cant make love anymore and all we could do is
play bingo and lots more (lol).
When I’m less busy, I enjoy taking a long walk; going to the beach, fishing, playing pool, sport and I like anything that has to do
with the enjoyment of water or listening to the waves of the beach along side with a cool music. My favorite colors are Green,
Blue and Black and my favorite meal are sea foods, Chinese and Mexican. My Type of music varies from blues to R&b to
country music to rock. My woman can have personal time for herself, no stress about that but I would like for us to share each
moment of our life together. No matter how independent my woman is, I would still love to give her every thing and any thing;
like taking her shopping every weekend. TV programs are good and I would love to sit close to my woman watching a lovely
program. I hope this has giving you an insight about who I am. If there is any thing still missing that you need to know, I am an
open book and will honestly answer any question. I hope to hear from you again.
Much Smiles!
Ben
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FD} (ATTACH THREE OF YOUR PICTURES WITH THIS FORMAT)
Topic: Hello Wonderful Angel,
I really appreciate this consistent communication and I would say it is a sign of WILL. And I tell you, wherever there is a WILL,
there is a WIN. I appreciate every word in your response and I’m glad we both know exactly what we are looking for in life.
Thank you so much for your condolence! Life is full of miseries and ironies, the most important thing is our willingness to stand
to our challenges and wanting to move on with life once again. As it is said that winners never quit and quitters never win; I
know we are winners.
I believe we both know that Love is not a destination but a journey and this is a journey that takes two to walk. I mean two
souls who understand ahead that they aren’t in for a kid walk, and what they have ahead is the most important mission in life;
a place meant for true people. It is a place called joy and happiness paradise. Sweet Apple, I would also be stupid not to be a
man of a woman like you. Really, I just see in your face that I can live with this woman, not the beauty part alone, but the depth
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of your soul.
As I could remember, as a kid, I was a very cute one (lol). One whom many bullies would target, but only to realize there is a
tough side of me. I could make a sober person dance; I could affect one with my smile. I grew up having more older friends.
Many would confide in me. To tell you, I am a type that doesn’t judge. No matter how dirty you may be, just come to me, and I
will give my support.
There is no Mr Right until we make him right and there is no Mrs Right until we make her right. A relationship is never about
how much at the beginning but how much we could make it grow into. My old friend who is a pastor would tell me, if you aren’t
ready to fall or look stupid, then don’t fall in love (lol). But sincerely that is the bitter truth! When I lost my wife and kids, I feared
love until I recalled that if it touched a heart, it would make the darkness fade into an endless sunny days. Can you prove that
right?
I have come to realize that, let a man write a better book, let him preach a better sermon, let him sing the best of songs, let him
gain wealth beyond dreams, he is reduced to nothing except he has a woman to call, my wife, my best friend and co-pilot.
My usual saying, and I am known for it, is that, ‘life is simple for those who take it simple’. I don’t like to complicate things, there
is joy in every situation if you know the right angle to look it from.
My mother is very old now and at almost 91, she can still sing. Now she cant wait to have me come visit her in Paris with my
second half, and I cant wait to have a happy home too. After my last project here in Johannesburg, SA, I am quitting field
works (in only three weeks time). Any other job would only require my attention from my home office wherever I go. I want to
spend the remaining seconds of my life with my woman.
I have a house in the States,I have one in Dubai, but if life turns around and I have no home any more, are you the type that
will stand by your man to build one? Would you smile at your man when he looks tense? I don’t need a super model, I rather
need a very good friend who knows when I am tensed just by looking into my eyes and a super woman. The whole world may
be mad at me, but if my woman is smiling at me, I would care less.
Who says we cant pick rags and turn to riches? Who says we cant design our own paradise together. It is workable just walk
by my side, please send me more pictures of your beautiful self. Here is a song (http://www.youtube.com/watch? v=EXRUoyaauw)
specially for you, please listen to it with your heart, body and soul. Every word in it is a dedication to you. Looking
forward to your email.
Still smiling!
Ben
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FE} (IF YOU HAVE A WEBSITE FOR YOUR DATING, IT IS BEST TO SEND THIS AND FF FROM THE DOMAIN EMAIL OF
YOUR COMPANY. IF NOT, WHY NOT? LOL)
Dearest …….,
I am in the middle of work and very busy now. You already make me feel like the luckiest man on earth. I will write you again
first thing when I’m free cos I’ll be thinking and thinking of you all through.
My dream is to travel to all the beautiful places and see all the wonders in the world with my woman. I can’t wait to be on the
London eye side by side with my woman, to be in Paris to see my mother and all its beauty, in the gorgeous Sydney Australia,
in the beautiful Bahamas, once again in Dubai to spend time together in my house (if I haven’t found a tenant before then) and
the rest of the world.
Meeting you and hopefully, starting a new life with you is the surest thing. Just be patient, I will be retired in only few weeks.
Sending smiles~
Ben
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FF} (WHETHER SHE CALLS YOU FIRST OR SHE HAS GIVEN YOU HER PHONE NUMBER, START TALKING TO HER ON
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PHONE AFTER THIS FORMAT. IF SHE REPLIES THIS FORMAT WITHOUT LEAVING HER NUMBER, YOU MUST ASK
AGAIN AND AGAIN UNTIL YOU HAVE IT. CALL HER AT LEAST ONCE IN EVERY TWO DAYS BUT BEST IS EVERY DAY.
PHONE CALLS ARE MUST SO DON’T DULL!)
TOPIC: How it Works
Darling, good morning to you and thank you for the sweet message. This joy in me since we started writing one another, is the
best I have felt so far in many years and I pray it grows and never die. I am at work already. How was your night?
Like I told you earlier, whatever you need to know about me, just ask and I’ll honestly answer. I think you should know these as
well. My mother is a French woman while my late dad is an American, born in New Berlin, NY. I was born in France but moved
to the States the same year and at age 5, we lost dad and mom decided to move back to Paris because she couldn’t cope. My
aunt who is also married to an American took me from mom and brought me up. They have a house in Cairo so we all stayed
there as one family. Also, I spent my school life in Cairo; graduated from Cairo University as an Architect. But because she
and her husband speak only English, I don’t understand my mother’s language till today. It bothers me at times but I promise
mom to learn it in this life time. Probably, after this project is completed, since I won’t need to be working any more, I will enrol
myself in a French class. I am the only child of my parents so I would say mom is the only person I have in my life and
hopefully, you. My aunt was a great impact to my life but you know some people come to our life for a season. I think that was
what god wanted her to do and that was fulfilled long time ago. I really can’t thank her enough! Mom said Aunt and family
recently relocated to Australia. I do wish them well but haven’t heard from them in a long while.
35yrs ago, I moved to New Berlin, NY to start my career as an architect because I have faith in the God’s own country and I tell
you what, I am successful! I met Mary in Paris but again in the States and we got married. Till the very moment she left this
world, she was every thing in my life and I will never forget the good old days. Those days are what I am looking for once
again. A woman that will be my life and every thing.
I am so happy we are both matured enough to understand what we need in life. Please do not blame my feelings! I don’t want
to lie to you nor to myself so I urge you to be happy that you have a man who expresses himself just the way he feels rather
than pretend or lie. The truth is, a journey of a thousand years start with a single step. The best we can do is what we are
doing now and once I get to you, we can get married without any regrets. If you cannot know me now and love me for me,
believe me, you will not love me when we are together. Love knows no bound and distance makes us know if truly we are in
love or not. One can not wait till one meets a man or a woman before one decides to love one another cos if that is the only
way it works, there won’t be dating sites. Let me make an illustration here perhaps it will help you hit the right point. When you
meet a man who is handsome and you too look sexy and you both meet at a cafe or mall, without knowing any thing about
each other, your minds jump and most of your decisions would be controlled by what your are seeing, I mean the handsome in
him and your sexy look will make most of the decisions for both of you and before you even get to know one another, you are
already making love and having sex and before long, you begin to know the person and in the end, he might never be the right
man for you and you may not be the right woman for him. Then, it is already late to make some corrections, but all you can do
is to say farewell to each other. That hurts I bet! But if you both meet in writing just like the real dating works, both of you have
not seen each other apart from the pictures and if you can express yourselves and fall in love under such condition, then I
promise that when you both meet, the main chemistry is already there and such relationship would last forever and ever. This
is the reason I joined the dating site; to look for my own woman, my best friend, my own wife, my own love, my sweetheart, my
co-pilot, my angel, my all and every thing, someone that will love me for me no matter the condition and she is sure to get
more of equal love. I am so happy my heart is in for you and wants you for the rest of my days. I urge you not to lie to yourself
as well. You had joined the dating site as a matured woman knowing fully well that a serious relationship has to be built first
through writing and then you meet for the main chemistry. I really can’t wait to hold my woman’s hand, stand in front of a
pastor and have him pronounce us as husband and wife. I want to live a proper life with my woman.
I think we should really take this to another level. let me hear the voice of an angel. Be warned I have been told I have an
unsorted accent, but sexy (lol). You can always kiss me on 01127781701978. lol
Please write me first thing when you get my message, I’m waiting. I want you to tell me all you think I should know about you
and if you still think there is something I haven’t told you, keep asking and I’ll always answer.
With much love,
Ben
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EITHER SEND THIS OR JUST MOVE TO FH ‘HELLO DIAMOND’, THE FORMAT BELOW. BUT THIS FORMAT IS VERY
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GOOD GENERALLY.)
TOPIC: I HOPE YOU KNOW
Sweetest of souls,
Good morning to you sweetest of souls. What a heart taking message to wake up to. You simply grabed me by the head and I
felt your kiss (lol). Been thinking about you most of my night / day and I don’t ever want to stop. I will find time to call you today.
Oh! You brought tears of joy to my eyes, I was totally moved by your message. Thank you for being you …….!
As regards all our conversation, the things we have known about each other, the lovely pictures, I make bold to say, ‘I love
you!’ I want you to look at those pictures of ours, do you ever think any other person could match us? My answer is NO! We
are created for each other. No matter who we are, no matter how stone hearted we may be, every human being knows what
they feel immediately they see the opposite sex, be it in the picture or physically. If you feel just likeness for someone, you
know. If you feel like having sex with someone, you know. If you feel you want someone to be yours forever, you also know. All
these feelings are our bodies telling us what they want. But instead of most people giving their bodies and spirit what they
want, they tend to give them bad food, I mean bad partners. And you know, the bodies will reject them either immediately or
someday. You might have been through a terrible past just like me, but it shouldn’t destroy our yet to come, beautiful future.
Because, if we close our eyes and wait for all the bad people of this world to pass by, the good ones will also pass and we
won’t notice.
Many people spend so much time thinking they can create love. NO! That is impossible but only a waste of time. If truly, love
can be created by mankind, we won’t have any broken heart. Every relationship that takes long before the partners fall in love
will have a happy end. But nah, most love life people spend time building often end in tragedy. To be candid, which love are
we building? A duplex or a mansion or a small room? Very funny! Or has any one ever seen love physically? lol. It’s not human
created phenomenon, its like a spirit, it enters into those who submit to it. We all need to start seeing the other side of the coin
because it is the side facing down, only powerful minds can see it.
Listening to my body, soul, mind, heart and spirit, it is you I want. Not just for a period but for ever and ever. Back into our
pasts, we gave in all but still, look at where we are today. Still on the same road like someone in a circular path, always
returning to the same point; looking for our second half. Why not hold hands and just walk straight. And to be candid, there are
three major attributes of true love, of every good relationship that lasts forever. Those attributes are what we need to put into
great consideration. They are understanding, tolerance and endurance. Every wonderful partners that live together until their
dieing days must have passed through a lot, I mean, they must have been through some really hard time. But because they
understand themselves, tolerate one another and endure whatever situation they find themselves, their life seems magical as if
they have special bond holding them together. And every relationship that ever crashed surely lack those attributes either from
one of the partners or both of them. I know at this point of our lives, we are no longer kids, I don’t think we would have any
reason to break one’s heart. In my past, I have never done that and you didn’t also, you can see we are good people meeting
at the best time of our lives.
Sometimes I do not blame the past because if not for the past, there won’t be our present. As far as we are not the bad type,
god surely prepare us for a better future, a better place and a better life. Love is never created or controlled by mankind but by
god himself. Tell me who wouldn’t like to fall in love? If we earn the whole world, gather all those treasures on this planet
combined with the ones in all other planets and there is no love in our life, certainly we got nothing. Show me a Jack that
wouldn’t die for Mary to live? Show me a Prince of Troy that wouldn’t do anything for the love of Ellen? Maximus died for he
loved his wife, his children and his country. America is God’s own country only because of the love for the whole world. Tell me
……, what would we be if we don’t let love steal our souls?
When we are finally together ~
And you look into my eyes ~
You will see what you mean to me ~
Every thing I want to do for the rest of my life ~
I want to do them for you, for love and for us ~
You will love this (http://www.youtube.com/watch? v=ZGoWtY_h4xo)
Please take good care of yourself for me.
Your love,
B’Gold
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Topic: Hello Diamond,
I got your message and looked at your picture over and over again, you are a true diamond, you are priceless, a blessing and
an angel. Thank you for so much care.
In 2004, two years after I lost my family, I moved to Coral Springs, Florida, because the house in New Berlin, NY where I used
to live with my family, was becoming scary to me. Imagination of them still living in the house almost got me crazy. But I thank
god I have overcome my fears, I am alive, full awaken again. Thank you for coming into my life at the very right time.
I must say the days ahead would be very long ones as we are closing to the end of this big project. It is the biggest I ever had
in my life, I signed a contract with this big company to execute a project of building their warehouses, offices and interior decor
all around the globe of South Africa, even though I am to spend my own cash on this project, I am so happy that I’ll get three
times the money I spend at the end of it all. So, to know I am close to finishing this, it’s a great joy in my heart. I could notice
the joy of relief upfront on the faces of my men. Even the locals are beginning to admit that they will surely miss me. They say I
have become more of a family (lol). I love all my men, be it professionals, acquired expatriate, and locals. While working I try to
build a personal relationship with each and every one even though I have over 300 men on this location.
Basically, all I do each business day is supervise the workers, monitor the jobs and make corrections and I have been doing
this for more than one year. I know your mind is telling you it may be boring to do same thing each day (lol), but it’s never
boring for I have the most interesting workers ever. We are like a large family and every one is always happy.
My world, we would have so much to plan as soon as we get together. My dream has always been to travel to all the beautiful
places in the world with my woman and with you, that dream will come true. And you will love it for I find humor in almost every
thing no matter the situation. I can turn tears into endless laughter and bring smile to a sad face. I am gifted in making people
happy. I want a woman to love and to love me now and forever.
In 2004, same year I moved to FL, I worked at the oil rig of Dubai and after the project, I had the opportunity to own a home in
the city resulting from the cheap sale from the first owner who intends to relocate to India where he came from. It was a
chance I couldn’t miss so I grabbed it. I paid only half of the money while the remaining half is to be paid to the Government.
Over the years, I have a tenant who has been paying $1500 every month to the pocket of the Government and just moved out.
So right now, I am searching for a new tenant who would continue the payment so I don’t get fined or pay any additional
money for delay in payment. The home would be mine when all the debt on it is cleared and I can enjoy whatever it brings
from rental. But if I don’t find a new tenant till I finish this project, then I would have more than enough money to pay off the
debt and not worry of finding a tenant any more.
My mother would really love to meet you …….. and I hope we can go see her before she pass away. She’s old and I fear she
doesn’t pass away till she sees me again with my woman.
I am so …… now honey, I’ll email you again first thing when I ………. Please take good care of yourself and remember Ben
cares. Each time I think about you, a star falls from the sky; so if you look outside your window today and see no star, its all
your fault for you made me think about you too much. Now I have your picture in my wallet, another one on my bed, another
one in the bathroom and another one in my heart. I want you around me every where and any where.
Please take it easy with work and take good care of yourself.
Yours Forever,
Ben.
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Topic: How Are You Most Wonderful?
Angel ….,
Good morning wonderful one! How are you today? To be honest with you, my night was full of the thought about our life to
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begin. So please tell me, who are you? A woman being a goddess? Or a goddess pretending to be a woman? Whichever you
are, you are doing something special to me (lol). I mean after all these years, I would have thought I might not have the
possibilities again of having my dream woman, my partner, my best friend and co-pilot.
I wouldn’t be scared anyway, because truly, love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It’s not
about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end. The inevitable truth is, if it is meant to
be, our hearts will find each other regardless of the distance apart. And if our hearts melt together so will our bodies and souls.
Then every word and every touch will fuel our passion flame. I will be yours, you will be mine, and we will be one, forever and
ever.
Absolutely I have come to know that we spend most of our life seeking for the secondary needs, while our primary needs are
left unseen. We have worked so hard and attained some wealth right? But for what purpose? To be realistic, except if you just
want to be known as a rich person, wealth means nothing if you have no best friend to share it with. All the millions are useless
indeed. How much do we need to eat? How much do we need for shelter? How much do we need for daily fun? Excess and
excess leads us to vanity. But for few of us who value the simplicity, we sure would do well in finding happiness. As I always
say, money can buy a good bed, but never will money buy sleep; It can buy the best diamond watch, but can never buy time; it
can buy piles of books, but cant buy knowledge; it can buy food, but not satisfaction; MONEY can buy sex, but can NEVER
buy love. That is why I refuse to follow the crowd. So as my own man, I would give up all that can be bought for that which cant
be bought. I want true joy and happiness. I want my woman to have power over my moods.
I am on the South Dale in the coast of SA. Haven to wake up every morning by 6am to catch up my chopper down here.
Working from then till late at night, yet being able to be distracted by this woman.
I have over 300 labors here, both skilled and locals, yet all could notice a new glow on my face (LOL). Bishop Nelson and I
have always stayed at Nelson’s in his CA home, he just got married almost two years now. He found his woman on the net and
to be sincere, he inspired me. I am ready to travel any where and live any where in the world so far that would please my
woman.
I am being true to my feelings, as my old friend would say, never question if you are in love or not, because if you were you
wouldn’t need to ask. So the best of men would accept what they feel without questions, because truly, Love and death cant
be escaped, no one can tell when, how, or where. It is never too early or too late.
What is more important to one is the love we share, the memories we have or the feelings within. Give love a chance to
swallow you up. Don’t just think it will happen in an instant, it will surprise you before you know it, but it will be the most
rewarding experience you will ever have. If you are as open minded and simple as me, I can promise you that the sky would
be the beginning.
Now, lets talk about True Love:
In my own word, true love is a natural phenomenon… its from God himself… one can not build true love like trust… love built by
humans soon collapse… true love is so powerful, so strong, so uncontrollable and that is why you hear some say it is blind…
true love can capture any body at any time and make even the saddest man a fool for love… true love is unconditional, it
doesn’t ask why?… true love understands, it tolerates and endures… true love never dies, it never fades, it gets stronger with
every morning sun shine and every night moon… true love does not warn ahead… many have fallen in love the very first day
they met and get married and yet live happily for the rest of their lives… and many have dated for many years thinking they can
build true love like trust and in the end, they brake up seconds after wedding… so true love is god’s will and comes to those
who believe in it… true love is all about how well and never how far… no matter the distance there-is between two lovers, the
love yet grow stronger… true love is joy and happiness, a certain kind of sharing that holds two hearts together in tenderness
and caring… true love is the love that lives even after death… the love for our dead is another type of true love and that is why
we remember all the time and pray for them… even though some dead are gone for thousand years, their living families
remember them like they left yesterday… but despite all the wonderful nature of true love, it has a bitter side that makes the
world feel it does not exist any longer… true love is often not reciprocal… that we love someone does not always mean they
love us back… that is such a painful nature of true love… yet true love can reciprocate… when true love is reciprocal, such
lovers live together and never let go… those are kind of few marriages that survive in our universe today… the kind of marriage
I want with you.
Could you tell me your ideology about true love and life? Looking forward to your sweet self.
Hugs!
Ben
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TOPIC: How Are You My Sunshine,
Hello my sunshine (LOL)! You must wonder why I call you sunshine. Can’t get the picture of you off my mind. I feel like giving a
hug (lol). Just as the sun lights up the earth, you light up my life. The only one I have met, with a heart so bright. Just seems
like yesterday, you came around my way, you changed my whole scene right away, with your outstanding personalty.
The only reason this was possible is because you must have portrayed yourself well and you have been yourself. That is good,
because if I ever fall in love with you for beauty, I wouldn’t walk more than miles to see more beauty; if I love you for wealth, I
wouldn’t walk more miles to see more; if I love you for smiles, I would see more on comedy shows (lol). But the only thing I can
fall in love with is you, that can’t be gotten by anyone else because its being YOU! That is absolutely what no one can ever be.
Like I said, it takes a life time to try knowing the reason why you feel the way you do with some people. The answers are never
there. Trust me, the day relationships starts falling is the day people can figure out the exact reason they have loved each
other.
Life is boring if perfect. Life is worse when there is nothing to change about anything. The balance in life is based on the facts
that, there must be thieves and criminals for the police to remain employed. The medical practitioners would run out of
business if we are all hale and hearty. The legal practitioners would die of boredom if there aren’t offenders. If everyone are
vegetarians, Oh my! Guess how many people would not earn a living.
White gained from black, blacks earn from white. If everyone is rich, wealth would be meaningless. Who would do the laundry?
Who would drive the car? who would guard who? who would keep whose money? lol. The essence for this short word is that, if
you can read the meaning in this, you are my woman for sure. The moral of the speech is that, we were all created for each
other. There is much fun in helping. We can all be better if we accept the fact that we cant live without each other.
The world would be a better place if we can start accepting things we cant change. Because , the only constant thing in life is,
CHANGE! Siting here thinking about you, brings out a part of me that loves everything (lol). I have a proposal for you this
wonderful day. Because I know you at least care about me, after all you wake up to check on my email and know if I am still
alive (lol). That is something, so I want your help today.
There is this woman whom I just met, and I could be scared about how she has gotten my attention, but I would be stupid to
submit to fears. I noticed that she already has a place that can not be replaced in my heart. Who could ever think of hurting
such a woman who only wants happiness? I want you to help me find her and tell her, I am not known for fears. I know a
journey of a thousand years start with a single step. A man who wants to fly must at least learn to stand on his feet! Tell her if
she is willing, I would love to take her hands. I am a man who gives nothing but everything. Once I have her hand, I can
promise her forever. Tell her I know this is not going to be a kid walk. Tell her I know there are times we would argue in future.
But tell her I would teach her to know that even while we argue we would still be holding hands for there are many sides to a
coin. Tell her life is short, but we can make paradise out of it. Tell her her worries have become mine, because I do not really
know how she has done it. Tell her, that coming across her was by chance, communicating with her was by choice, but then
falling in love with her is beyond my control.
You know where to find her my dear, just go to your dressing mirror and you would find her staring back at you (lol). Please
look into her eyes and speak this to her for me , ‘Ben loves you!’.
Yours,
Ben
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Topic: My Soul
My soul, good morning to a beautiful world and thank you for the lovely message to wake up to. Yes, the interior decorations
will be completed this week and then we can proceed to fixing of the electrical pipes and covering of the pipes. All those will
take only six days once we are through with the interior decoration and I am getting paid the same day. I have invested all I
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had in this project but the good news is, once I am done, I will be three times richer than I was (lol). I will explain more to you
when I call today.
I keep thinking of how much I need to be home with you, how much I want us to be together and how much I want to be with
you every where and any where. Darling, I will be kissing you every morning and make passionate love to you in bed and
maybe in the shower too; I hope these are things you would like. Our afternoons and evenings would be filled with so much
fun, laughter, smiles, dance, talk, walk, relax, kiss, hug, and many more. Our nights would be you on me and me on you, even
when we sleep, we would still be holding hands. And I love my tongue for it tickles, I will start from your head and slip gently
down and in to every single part of your body and you could almost loose your breath. Your loud scream would be a trigger
and makes me more perfect. My love, I am here fully emotional and just want to be with you. Oh my, how I wish I could grow
wings, I would be with you before the early morning sun rise, land at your window and gather the whole birds in the world to
join me sing this to you (http://www.youtube.com/watch? v=Kzdekl3Qj8c). I am sunk in love, crazy about you honey. I am at
work but I can hardly leave the office cos I am waiting to hear from you every second of every minute of every hour. Please tell
me, what have you done to me? (lol)… I love you sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooo much ….. and I’m so happy that
you are the one for me. I just want to be on my way to you. This is what I have wanted for years and I can’t wait any more.
Kisses and hugs!
B’Gold.
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FL} (FILL BLANK)
Happy Tuesday My Dearest Co-pilot,
How are you doing this morning? I hope this message meets you in a happy mood. I am emailing you this early hour because I
was far asleep when you called and I hate that I missed your call. I really can’t wait any longer. I just want to finish this project
and start my new life with you ……
I love the fact that I get these much emails from you. I feel special. Trust me, I am a warrior. What a wonderful way of life it is
to find joy and happiness in someone else. I would ask you some few questions which requires a min before you answer each.
I think it’s time we hold hands and kiss and say to one another all those little things that makes one head want to blow off. As
far as I know, this is our destiny and we cannot deny it. So right now as you read this, I am holding you and kissing you; I am
asking these questions and you are saying the answers directly into my ears.
Do you believe in Love, even amidst this crazy world we find ourselves in?
Do you believe that happiness has value more than every material things we may get in life?
Do you believe that you have a good heart to care for people unconditionally?
If you found a hundred dollar bill on the road and see a hungry orphan, would you feed him?
If you get into an argument with me, and I pull you close to kiss you, would you still kiss me back?
Would you love those close to me as I would love all those who matter to you?
If I bring you breakfast to your bed would you kiss after saying thanks?
Do you love to run away with me sometimes where we would be out of business environment to spend quality time together?
Do you believe the world should concentrate more on peace projects than war funding?
Do you have faith that every man is the architect of his own destiny?
Do you believe that Life without Love is like a harp without strings?
Do you know that, You can’t make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the
person to realize your worth?
If God is the DJ, then Life is the dance floor; Love is the rhythm, and You might be my rythm?
If you have said yes to all these and you say no to my next question then you might not really know what you want then (lol).
WOULD YOU BE MINE TODAY , TOMORROW AND TILL END OF TIME?
I know the possibility of thinking, this man I haven’t met, how can there be these feelings? What does he know about me? But I
can tell you the truth about life. The people you have met and probably fallen in love with, what do they know about you that
you think I don’t know? Probably, just some physical things, like smell, sense of touch, and body physics, and that is all. But
these few things are the least things to love for. These are just sentimental values that are found in many at good length. The
main things to love for are the abilities to agree on phenomena, and sense of directions. The unexplained attraction to
someone’s words, which is life itself. These are the only things that matters deep down. How best can one get these things
better than meeting in writings? Where you can escape the sentimental factors I mentioned earlier and once we meet, the
biggest sentiments is there and one wouldn’t be able to help but start the feelings from there. I can tell you that internet is the
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best and also the worst way of meeting people. It is the best in the sense that if two two people meet and are as open as a
book with each other with no lies. I promise it cant fail. The worst in the sense that if these two meet and there is even a single
atom of lie in-between, there comes disappointments, which is like a small stone that can bring down a big wall. Did you ever
lie to me? Cos I wouldn’t ever lie for anything. My ma brought up a better man than that (LOL). Go and do the research about
what I just said and you will find out whether the maths is good or not.
As food is needed for the body, the same way love is needed for the soul. Food strengthens the body while love strengths the
soul. A person is incomplete without love. I will never give up the fight and will of love. This morning has been a big fun for me,
I listened to the song I sent to you previously, it was so nice, I dance in wild imagination that you are right in front of me,
holding me tight as we both keep taking gentle steps round the house. Darling, if you close your eyes and you are holding my
hands, you are no different from that woman with eyes opened because I will be leading you to the right path. I cant wait to be
out of here for us to start our new life together.
I sang for us and put your name in the song, this same song is the first I would sing for you first thing when we meet. I did
picture you with me on the cruise laughing so hard in my arms (lol). Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and
loyalty. The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don’t become less of who you are; you end up being
complete with your loved ones. I do cherish your presence in me. There is this gift I want to buy for you but that would remain
a secret until we meet at the airport.
Waiting impatiently to hear from you.
Ben
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TOPIC: MY, OH MY!
My love, you have sent me the best message I have ever received in my whole life. How wonderful it is to know our love is
reciprocal. You see honey, we will be spending the rest of our lives together in great joy and fulfillment of heart. We will be
together TILL DEATH DO US PART. You are making me more than happy and really, I can not write enough of how much I
feel now until later today because I should be staying with the workers all through the day as this is the last day of the interior
decorations. I LOVE YOU MORE THAN LIFE …… PLEASE WHEN YOU WAKE UP, PLACE YOUR RIGHT HAND OVER
YOUR LEFT SHOULDER AND YOUR LEFT HAND OVER YOUR RIGHT SHOULDER, THAT IS ME GIVING YOU THE
BIGGEST HUG EVER. ALSO CLOSE YOUR EYES AND BLOW A KISS TO THE AIR, THAT IS ME RECEIVING A KISS
FROM YOU. I LOVE YOU MY WIFE.
Let me give you a name today. Look at these four letters word, L O V E. They are the best combination of letters known to
mankind. If we divide the letters into two places, we have, LO and VE. Without LO, VE is useless and without VE, LO is
meaningless. Yet, LO+VE=LOVE. Today, I choose to be your VE while you mean my LO (lol). Without us together, we are
certainly incomplete. I hope you love your new name, LO (lol).
Will write more later today.
Your Husband,
Ben.
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FM} (SEND THIS AT NIGHT JUST LIKE YOU ARE TRULY DONE WITH THE INTERIOR DECORATION. READ CAREFULLY
TO KNOW WHERE BLANKS ARE. BLANKS ARE INDICATED WITH FOUR DOTS. YOU’VE GOT THREE BLANKS. THE
SECOND DAY AFTER SENDING THIS, EMAIL HER A SHORT GREETING MESSAGE. GO TO BILLING SECTION THE
THIRD DAY AND SEND THE FIRST BILLING FORMAT. ALL THE BEST!)
Oh, my wife! I am indeed so delighted with your response to those questions. Once again in life, finally, I found you. As I write
to you right here, I am crying and no matter how hard I try, I can’t stop this tears of joy. I am so speechless, please listen to this
song, it explains every thing I have to say right now, (http://www.youtube.com/watch? v=6c64kUiqknY). Below is the lyrics.
“Queen Of My Heart”
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[Kian:]
So here we stand
In our secret place
With a sound of the crowd
So far away
And you take my hand
And it feels like home
We both understand
It’s where we belong
[Bryan:]
So how do I say?
Do I say goodbye?
We both have our dreams
We both wanna fly
So let’s take tonight
To carry us through
The lonely times
[CHORUS:]
[All:]
I’ll always look back
As I walk away
This memory
Will last for eternity
And all of our tears
Will be lost in the rain
When I’ve found my way
Back to your arms again
But until that day
You know you are
The queen of my heart
[Bryan:]
Queen of my heart
[Shane:]
So let’s take tonight
And never let go
While dancing we’ll kiss
Like there’s no tomorrow
As the stars sparkle down
Like a diamond ring
I’ll treasure this moment
Till we meet again
[Mark: (All:)]
But no matter how far
(Matter how far)
Or where you may be
(Where you may be)
I just close my eyes
(I just close my eyes)
And you’re in my dreams
And there you will be
Until we meet
[Repeat chorus twice]
[Shane: (All:)]
Oh yeah
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You’re the
Queen of my heart
(Of my heart)
No matter
How many years it takes
(Queen of my heart)
I’ll give it all to you
Oh yeah
(Queen of my heart)
Oh yes you are
The queen of my heart
This song has always kept me going, believing I will find my woman someday, now that I found you, please listen to this song
endlessly, its all for you …… I love you right from the moment I found you, I love you today, I’ll be loving you every tomorrow till
there is no more tomorrow.
I am so sorry for not being able to come on the computer until now. I have been so busy with work and I don’t want any thing to
delay us my love, I really want to get all these done and just start the last chapter of my life with you. A kind of life I want for the
rest of my life. The year of the Dragon, be our year, please bless our life, bless our home and bless our marriage. Let us live
happily together for the rest of our lives. So be it! Amen.
Dear, I am not afraid and I can never be. I am bold and proud of you, I love you for you, not for any particular reason because
the love I have for you is unquestionable, true love indeed! Love and death are things one can not question because you can
not say where, when or how. Love catches up with us and we find our-self in deep dept. I love you unconditionally my …… This
is why I have never asked any particular question because I know it doesn’t matter any way, I am in love already, to stay and
never let go no matter what we go through. I understand love hurts especially when one does not get equal love but our love
will never hurt honey, I promise on my life. I swear by the day I was born, the day I shall die and the day I shall rise again, I will
love you through the thick and thin. I will love you through eternity. I will be your shoulder if you ever need a shoulder to lean
on. I will be there for you through all seasons, weather, condition and any situation. For you, I will fly with the angels just to
protect and guide you from any kind of worries. I will be there and never leave. On my life, I swear! Please promise me you will
never hurt me nor break my heart too. All I’m asking is equal love, a love that is unconditional, true love that lives even after
death. That is all I’m asking honey or is it too much (lol). As far as our love is reciprocal, we will be happy together cos we will
always understand each other, tolerate one another and endure in any kind of situation. Our life will be filled with so much joy
and fulfillment of heart. We will never cry nor have any reason to. I love you ……!
The interior decoration was completed today and I am so happy about that. First thing on ……, I will be having a meeting with
the professionals that will install the electric pipes on the deck of the building and once they start, it will take three days to get
done. Then after that, my local labors will fix the POP to cover the pipes and that will take another three days which is the end
of this ever ending project. In total, I have a stretch of 6days to complete this and earn my biggest reward in my carrier. This
means I will be retired in only few days to spend the remaining seconds of my life with you. Dear, be prepared to celebrate with
me soon when I get paid. $30million is not a joke! Like I told you honey, please keep my secret to you and you alone because I
will never discuss my business with any one expect for love. This is how much I have given my life to you. I believe that
husband and wife should not keep secret from each other if truly they are in love. So I will never keep any thing from you my
love, I want us to know each other in and out. For you to know me more than I know myself and for me to know you more than
you know yourself. Without saying any word, just a sign on the face or body should be able to tell me or you what we mean. I
want us to be inseparable twins (lol).
Good night honey, I love you so!
Your Husband,
Ben
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Topic: How Are You Queen Of My Heart?
Hello my love,. How are you today? I must confess, I couldn’t sleep through the night. I felt like someone who has never been
in love. All through my night, it was you I thought about. I talked to your picture because I have one right on my bed. I kissed it
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and said I love you. I said so many things from one topic to the other as if I was talking to you for real. I played the song I sent
to you previously and sang it over and over for your picture (lol). At a time, I knelt and prayed and thank God for bringing you
into my life. I went to bed again hoping to get some sleep with your picture on my chest. Yet, eyes were just closed with minds
opened just thinking about you. And before I know it, it was morning already. OMG! This has never happened to me in my
whole life. Darling, you sure make me the happiest man I can ever be; thank you!
Oh, I miss ma. But then she is a strong woman my dear. Sometimes I call her Jesus’s mother (lol). She has a good heart and
also I can tell you her instincts are like oracle. I already told her about you and she did say she likes you.
As I have said, I don’t feel negative about any feelings I have right now, because it can’t be failed except for death. Truly, love
needs no map, for it can find it’s way blindfolded. This kind of certainty comes, but once in a lifetime. Men always seem to
wonder what it takes to get a woman. Like, what do they have to do to make a woman notice them? Men have to realize that
they have to be sweet, caring, gentle, honest and still have that sweet little thing about them that drives any woman crazy: and
that’s reaching her heart. No matter how much you try, if you don’t reach her heart, it won’t ever be worth-while. And really how
did this happen if I have a space in your heart now and you haven’t met me to feel sentiments? It means I have gotten the
most important part of the journey upfront (lol).
Who shall say that the maiden so pretty and fair shall always have the greater man; and the ogre who walks to the beat of
thundering clouds will never find her prince? Because really, love is destiny, and no one can really explain it.
I hope your days are good. Our meeting would be starting at exactly 2:00 p.m this afternoon so I’ll get in touch with you after
the meeting. Pls keep me updated with events around you.
You are always on my mind. Wish I could hear your voice.
Hugs and kisses!
Ben
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Topic: Hi Wonderful Angel, Precious Wife,
Hello my angel. I write today to wake you up into yet another beautiful day. I don’t know how you have done this but I thank
you for making me the happiest man I can ever be. I slept late last night as I was in bed thinking about our fantastic life
together and also singing for you my love; yes, I agree that love could be crazy. That is why I believe that even though you
were not physically with me in bed, your spirit, soul and mind are here with me. My love for you keeps growing with every
morning sunrise and every night moon and all the moments in-between. I don’t know what I have done that I deserve a second
chance. I lost one and yet I found another angel. How did I become so lucky. I trusted my instincts and got only you from that
market and you turned gold. My instincts still direct me, move ahead with her in my journey. I really thank my God; I mean I
ask for something good and he gives me the best (lol).
Hiding from the whole past, rains and snow, for I may be reminded of some memories, trying to forget yet I wont let go.
Walking through a crowded street, I could still hear my own heartbeat. So many people around this world my dear, tell me,
where do I find someone like you? Pls take me to your heart, take me to your soul, show me that wonders can be true.
They say, nothing lasts forever, we are only here today, love is now or never, pls bring me far away! Give me your hand and
hold me, show me what love is, maybe I haven’t got a clue, be my guardian star and make me know love can last forever.
Take my hands before I am too old (lol). I could go be with some friends to have fun, but they don’t really comprehend. I don’t
need too much talking , without saying anything, all I need is some one who makes me want to sing. And you do a great job on
that. I have written a song I would sing for you when I get to you. In less than few weeks I would complete this project and
handover and come straight to you. Would you mind picking this old man from the airport? (lol).
Have you ever danced in a rain? Give it a trial and see how free your soul really is. Every thing I want to do for the rest of my
life, I want to do them with you. Will email you again today after our meeting. Please call me when you wake up, I am dieing to
hear your voice.
Yours Forever,
Ben
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TOPIC: 46 REASONS WHY I LOVE YOU.
1. I love the way we finish each others sentences.
2. I love the way I know you’ll never give up on me.
3. I love the fact that I wouldn’t ever give up on you.
4. I love how beautiful your eyes are.
5. I love the way I can’t imagine a day without you in my life.
6. I love the way if we were ever separated I wouldn’t know how to go on.
7. I love how I know you’ll always be there when I need you to be.
8. I love the fact that I will always be there for you too.
9. I love how when I dream of my life partner, the only person that I can see is you.
10. I love how complete I feel when I am with you.
11. I love the way you sometimes make me laugh.
12. I love the way you sometimes laugh.
13. I love your thoughtfulness.
14. I love your tenderness.
15. I love your ability to speak without saying a single word.
16. I love the way, how even though we may be miles apart I still feel like you’re right here with me.
17. I love the way you surprise me with the perfect emails that show you pay attention to me.
18. I love your love for the things that interest me.
19. I love the way you let me live my life freely without jealousy.
20. I love how you demand respect but are not controlling.
21. I love how I would do anything in this world to make you happy.
22. I love how you would do anything in this world to make me happy.
23. I love the way your voice sounds over the phone.
24. I love the way your voice sounds when you whisper sweet nothings in my ear.
25. I love the completeness and oneness I feel when I think of us making love.
26. I love your sensuality.
27. I love how our romance feels like the perfect romance movie.
28. I love how you are my soul mate.
29. I love the way you handle troubled times.
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30. I love the way you respect me.
31. I love the way you protect and defend me.
32. I love when I imagine the softness of your lips against mine.
33. I love when I imagine the softness of you lips against my body.
34. I love when I imagine the feeling of your hair brushing against me when we make love.
35. I love when I imagine us laying in bed at night talking about nothing.
36. I love when I imagine us waking up to find we’ve been cuddling together all night.
37. I love the surprises you leave for me.
38. I love your intelligence.
39. I love your ingenuity.
40. I love your love for life.
41. I love your passion for your hobbies and interests.
42. I love how every time I look at your picture, you take my breath away.
43. I love how I thank God everyday for bringing someone as wonderful as you into my life.
44. I love the fact you gave me the gift of life.
45. I love the special moments that we shared that will remain my fondest memories of you and I.
46. I love you for you.
Sweetheart, you mean life to me.
THANK YOU SO MUCH LOVE. I CAN’T WAIT FOR US TO BEGIN OUR NEW LIVES TOGETHER!!! LONG KISSES AND
HUGS
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TOPIC: Good morning to you sweet love,
Good morning to you sweet love,
“Love means making the other happy, even from a distance.”
… Thank you for making me happy
“Love is knowing you are the bud from which his happiness blossoms.”
… My love, you are the bud from which my happiness blossom
“Happiness is falling asleep next to you and waking up thinking I’m still in my dreams.”
… This has been my every night dream since I found you honey
“Where your pleasure is, there is your treasure: where your treasure, there your heart; where your heart, there your
happiness.”
… You are the home for my pleasure, my treasure, my heart and my happiness
“Happiness is the only thing on earth that cannot be paid by any diamonds, gold or money.”
… Who says your love can be bought? Not in this life time honey… Our love is priceless.
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“I smiled to many people for more than a billion times; but when I first found you, my heart took over and smiled for the first
time.”
… This is how much I knew it is you I have been searching for all my life.
“Your presence in my life brings wonderful smiles and loving thoughts within my heart.”
… And so shall it be until the end of time
“To love is to place our happiness in the happiness of another.”
… That we are happy together is all I ever wanted and will ever want for the rest of my life
“Kiss slowly, love deeply, forgive quickly. Life is too short for you to be disappointed any longer.”
… I promise on my life honey… I promise to love you endlessly and our secrets shall always remain our secrets not to reveal to
any other person; only between you and I
“Just when I thought that love could never be a part of me, that’s when you came along and showed me happiness!”
… Thank you for your endless love and I’m so happy we both appreciate every moment of our relationship since we found
each other.
We are getting together soon honey. What more can make us happier than this? You can not imagine how happy I am now
and words can not even express it.
I wish you a wonderful day ahead honey. The professionals will be starting work today and will finish in three days time. I love
you more than life itself and nothing will change that.
Coming home to you soon,
Your Husband.
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TOPIC: A POEM FOR YOU
I NEED YOU MORE…
THE FIRST TIME I SAW YOUR FACE, EVEN THOUGH IT WAS IN THE PICTURE
I THOUGHT THE SUN ROSE IN YOUR EYES
AND THE MOON AND THE STARS WERE THE GIFT YOU GAVE ME
THE FIRST TIME EVER I KISSED YOUR MOUTH EVEN THOUGH IT WAS ON THE SCREEN OF MY SYSTEM,
I FELT THE EARTH WOULD TURN IN MY HAND
THE FIRST TIME EVER I LAY WITH YOU, EVEN THOUGH IT WAS IN MY DREAM,
I FELT YOUR HEART CLOSE TO MINE
AND I KNEW OUR JOY WOULD FILL THE EARTH
AND WOULD LAST TILL THE END OF THIS WORLD
FOR ALL THOSE TIME YOU OPENED MY EYES
AND ALL THE TRUTH YOU MADE ME SEE
FOR ALL THE JOY YOU BROUGHT TO MY LIFE
FOR ALL THE LOVE I FOUND IN YOU
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FOR EVERY DREAM YOU MADE COME THROUGH
I WILL BE THANKFUL FOREVER
I NEED YOU MORE THAN ANY ONE CAN KNOW
AND I COULDN’T LIVE A DAY WITHOUT YOU
I HAVE BUILT MY WORLD AROUND YOU
AND NOTHING WILL CHANGE MY LOVE FOR YOU
SMILE NOW AND HUG ME, KISS ME COS I AM THERE WITH YOU.
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Topic: My love,
Good day to you and thanks for every thing. It is yet another long day with every one very busy. How is your day going? I hope
every thing is fine and you are working less cos I’m getting real close to the end of this project and about time to get my ass on
flight to you. Darling, the sets of POP needed for roofing arrived today from China and every thing went well with the
installation of the electric pipes going fast. Oh, thanks to God, we are getting things exactly as planed and will be done as
planed. Since I got the money you sent, it has been much relief and great joy in the heart of every one. Once the electric pipes
are completely installed and the POP are fixed , I am so happy that that would be the final stage and then I can stretch my
bones once again. Honestly, it has not been an easy task. How wonderful it would be when I am finally done with this
especially to know that I am coming directly to my woman. Darling, I really do hope you are doing great job on your strength,
you have to be very strong in order to withstand this hot man… lol. I won’t wait till we get home, the whole world will know from
the airport that Mrs Gold is now in the hands of Mr Gold. That reminds me, I looked at your gift today again and smiled
knowing how happy you would feel when you get it, something I will never tell you till I see you at the airport. It is something so
special and you can imagine what could be most special to a love. I am sure you can’t guess right cos it’s something that will
make you open your mouth in great amazement, it would be what I’ll be giving you as I draw you close to kiss you at the air
port.. Life is good, yes, it really is when one is so lucky to find his / her soul mate, a friend in deed, the driver of one’s heart, the
cap that fit one’s head, a true partner, the co-pilot, the winner of one’s life, the stead firm in times of need, the great lover, the
best kisser, the best love maker, the supporter, the protector, the down, the middle, the up, the remainder, the every day joy,
the every day happiness, a woman that will stay and never leave, a woman to die by her side, the seer of the last breath.
Darling, when I finally see you, I will say more than words can ever express. I love you more and more. Looking forward to
hearing from you.
Yours Forever.
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TOPIC: ELECTRICAL INSTALLATION COMPLETED!
Glory be to god! I am at the construction site already. The professionals did a great job! I felt very happy when I got here this
morning and saw they fulfilled their promise. Now, another three more days to go. My local labours only need to cover the
pipes with the pop and that is the end. Oh my goodness! Three more days, wish it can run very fast in only 24hrs.
Last night, I did had a dream of us and it was so sweet. I never wanted to wake up cos we were having a wonderful time; I see
clearly that we were in the house running and dancing and singing together and suddenly, our bodies melt together and before
long, we made sweet love. Oh my, I cum three times in my dream and I was rolling in bed saying ‘darling, let me go clean up’
but when I opened my eyes, oh, I was so touched and wish there is something that could just fly me to you. Darling, loneliness
is not good and I really want you. I want you with me honey; I want you all the time; I want you every now and then; I want to
sleep in bed and feel your body close to mine; I want to sing and watch you dance to my voice; I want to close my eyes and
feel your breath; I want to fill those spaces in between your fingers; I want to travel to the sky and the moon and the planets
and watch you fly with the real angels in wings; I want to walk beside you, not behind nor in front of you; darling, I want to sit
down with you, put your leg on my laps and gently move my hand in and out of your leg to the extremes and watch you close
your eyes and mourn. I am dieing right here cos I can’t wait to be with you.
Will talk to you later today. Love you more and more.
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Topic: Morning My Love
Oh my love, good morning to you. I have been thinking about you all day long. You are sure the keeper of my star, wiper of my
tears, carer of my soul, joy of my life, taker of my breath, reader of my mind, melter of my heart, lover of my world, reason for
my living, hearer of my worries, bringer of my smiles, angel of my spirit, cover of my body, filler of all spaces, sweetest of
souls. It is truly no accident finding you, god had a hand in it, long before I knew you. I love you forever. Thank you so much for
being you. I hope this song (http://www.youtube.com/watch? v=X3ZEekN2hfE) explains more of what I can say to you right
now.
Your Golden man,
Ben.
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Topic: You Are Still The One…
Let these words not only touch your eyes, let them travel through your soul, and let them rest in your heart as you rest in
mine…I love you.
You’re still the one…
Words alone will never be able to express the depth of my love for you.
In case you didn’t know, I’ll be loving you always and forever!!
Falling in love with you was the easiest thing I’ve done in my life.
Hand in hand and heart to heart my love for you shall never part.
Even though we are apart, my love you will never part.
I’ll love the sun for days, the moon for nights, and YOU for forever.
Loving you makes my heart explode with happiness.
Rains fall, winds blow, the sun shines… it all comes naturally, just like loving you.
Simply said… I love you…
Being with you is like having every single one of my wishes come true.
Loving you has been the best thing to ever happen to me!
Just had to let you know… you’re the best! I love you!
There is no long distance about love; it always finds a way to bring hearts together, no matter how many miles are between
them.
You are the sun in my day, the wind in my sky, the waves in my ocean, and the beat in my heart.
I wish I was there to hold you tight instead of just send this loving, “Good Morning.”
Thank you for being the one who calms all my inner fears.
Your love is all I’ll ever need.
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YOU ARE STILL THE ONE AND WILL ALWAYS BE THE ONE!
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CALL HER AND ASK FOR THE CLOSEST AIRPORT TO HER.
TOPIC: SUCCESS AT LAST!!!
Finally my dear LO, god will is done!!! The journey that seems so far has come to an end. Oh, you need to see how relieved I
feel now. I just want to send this short message and then go to the hotel room to get some sleep right away. I mean I am so
tired my love!
My love for you is in no doubt unconditional; because I don’t have a particular condition for loving you. If I say its the way you
talk on phone or your gorgeous voice or the way you put your words in writing or the way you look so beautiful in the picture or
your strong faith in God, love and life or the way my mind beats for love each time I get to contact you or the way I feel about
you right from the very moment I get to find you or the stories we shared about our past or the truthfulness in your words and
readiness to love and be loved once again or the age that shows we are old enough to know what we want or every thing
about you… I would still not find the main reason… I believe in the saying that true love is unconditional, it doesn’t ask why… it
knows no bound nor distance… it just captures the mind and you find yourself in it… the truth is, THE FEELINGS I HAVE, MY
EMOTIONS, THE PASSION IN ME IS UNCONDITIONAL… I’LL BE LOVING YOU FOR YOU AND WITH EVERY SECOND
TIME MOVES UNTIL THE END OF TIME… Please take care of yourself sweetest of souls~
I already told my ticketing agent to book my flight so I don’t miss a seat. Once I have the confirmation from him, I will forward it
to you. I will call you when I wake up.
Your VE (lol).
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FORWARD THE FLIGHT CONFIRMATION THE NEXT DAY AND SEND THIS. BOOK FLIGHT TO NEXT 4DAYS.
TOPIC: The Time Is Now, I’m So Happy!
Hi love,
Please start today first, by listening to this song (http://www.youtube.com/watch? v=MSKEOlWOytA&feature=related) from my
heart to you and then you can read down. Also, I forwarded you my flight confirmation.
Good morning to you. I know if I put the way I feel after talking to you yesterday into writing, it will never be enough. So just
give me a thousand pages and let me write this. I love the way you talk, I love the way you smile, I love the way you laugh, I
love your beauty, I love that passion in you, I love that woman you are, I love you for you and I love that it is you I did find. After
talking to you yesterday, I went to bed and tried to sleep but never, I spent another an hour or more in bed just thinking about
this miracle happening to me. You can imagine a lonely man for nine years suddenly in love again, you are truly heaven sent.
Dear, if you are placed in the midst of a million women and I am to pick, I know I will figure you out without the least mistake. If
the whole water, the oceans and the seas on earth, together with the ones in heaven are joined together and turned into ink;
and the whole trees in the forest are turned into pen and I am told to write how much I adore you, I will use all the ink and pen
and still have more to write. If I am to count how much I treasure you with the stones on earth, I bet I will empty the earth and
will have have more to count. Even when I die and I have the opportunity to make only one wish, I would still wish that we
spend our eternal life together in heaven. Darling, I lost life when I lost Mary; I found you and you brought me back alive. I am
living once again, thank you so much. Even though I have succeeded in other areas of life, if I have not found you, I would still
be like an unfortunate man. Love is all we need to stay alive for real. This morning, I am writing you from the top of my office
table standing on my feet because I am supposed to be outside with the inspection team, but when I stood up to go, I could
not, your thought in my mind logged on into my google account and here I am still writing.lol. Dear, if you have been loved in
the past, know that that love is not enough, if you have been happy in the past, know that you didn’t get the dept of happiness
you deserve, if you ever have been caress in your life, know that you haven’t got a clue, when all this inspection of a thing is
finally completed and I step into my flight coming to you, prepare yourself to be loved above all women, prepare your mind to
be the happiest woman on earth and prepare your life to be caressed like never before, I will spoil you with every thing honey.
I wish I didn’t have to miss you. If only you could be with me always. I know I could never be any happier. But then again, I
know that the day is now, when I will be able to spend my every waking moment with you. I even miss you when I am sleeping!
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I love you, babe. You are my now and ever, my only love, and I thank you for being so kind with my heart. Hopefully, in some
hours to come, I won’t have to hate missing you.
The inspection team of Abu Dahbi are out there waiting for me and I am going to join them now. I will email you again after
every thing, to celebrate this great success together.
Love Always,
Your Mr. Gold.
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TOPIC: To The Door Company
Good Morning Sweetest of Souls…..
Thank you my sweet–for being you.
Amazing and wonderful and a heart so true!
You’re kind and loving and always make me smile.
I get the butterflies every time its your number I dial.
Even when you are not able to answer the phone
I still can hear your sweet voice
Telling me its ok love!
I think my heart skips a beat when I hear your voice.
To love you forever–I have no choice.
Thank you for showing me that TRUE love is real.
What I feel for you I thought I would never feel.
Thank you for listening to my worries and fears.
Thank you for giving me this wonderful year.
I know in my heart that you are one of a kind
I am the luckiest man because its you I did find!
You can make me smile with a simple Hi
My love,respect and admiration for you will never die!
There is a million feelings I feel for you…
all of them bright colors,none of them are blue!
So Thank you for loving me and letting me love you.
For being the woman of my dreams and helping me to see…
That loving someone like you can truly set one free!
I so much appreciate the will
I so much cherish your generosity
For you to understand
That there are people in this world
Who indeed need our help
For every finger we point
We get four to ourselves
For every good we do
We get multiple of folds in return
Then what can be more rewarding than helping others
When the road seems stalled
You never gave up
Contributions came in from two angels
A friend and you despite the world population
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I am so proud of you my love
I know I will ever appreciate your kindness
You are truly a light in the dark
May the reward of God be with you
Above all promises…
Is my True love for you
It is endless!
On my life I swear….
The Sun goes away at night
The Moon goes away in the morning
Darkness and Brightness alternates
But my love for you is still in all weather, condition and situation
To go nowhere until the end of time.
A life full of joy
A life full of happiness
A special sweetness that never ends
Certainly it is our destiny
To be together till eternity
You cannot imagine how much I hate to say this
But I know it’s all good
That I go out now and get the doors changed
Good morning sweetest of souls!
Please enjoy your day.
Love ya!
PS- I’ll call you and let you know when I get my payment. I am more than happy my love, you just can’t imagine! Thank you for
every thing and I promise to refund all your money soon.
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ATTACH THE COPY OF CHECK
TOPIC: GOING TO THE BANK
Sweetie,
How are you doing? and how did your yesterday go? Hope you all had fun? I am fine over, just been thinking too much about
you and missing you so badly.
Honey, I love you with every part of my being. I want to marry your soul and I have. I dream of nobody else. Everyday is a true
struggle when I’m not with you. If I could conjure up all the power in the world to translate my love to every form of living:
physical and spiritual, I would. You are my everything, and I love you more than life itself. I love you truly!
I will be out of the door straight to the bank soon. I attached the copy of my check to this email and you already have my flight
confirmation. Please remember this check is a secret I will never share with any one else so please keep it to yourself. Flight is
scheduled to take off at ……PM today while we arrive tomorrow at …..PM. My luggage is packed and the truck man is set to
take my equipments to the airport. Once I’m done at the bank, I will be going to the agent to pay him and get my ticket. I will
also have enough money to pay the taxi man, the truck man and my deficit at the hotel. You don’t know how happy I am right
now. I don’t even know the best way to express my feelings. I believe you know this kind of joy I’m talking about.
Dear, you bring to me a happiness no one else has before. You bring to me a love I have never known before. I could not
imagine what my life would be like without you. I know that I don’t want to even imagine. You have touched my heart in ways
no one could ever comprehend. I love being with you and I want to spend the rest of my life with you. My Wonderful angel
there is nothing on this Earth that I could ever give you that would ever come close to how I feel about you. I want to be with
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you for the rest of your life, and I know you feel the same. If only you knew how much I want to stay in your life.
Love Always,
Ben
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Topic: Will Try Every Thing I Can
Dear …. Gold LO,
Good day to a beautiful world. I woke up today with you on my mind just like every other day and when I think of you, I feel
alive. You bring to me a happiness that no one else ever could. You bring to me a love I have never known before. I could not
imagine what my life would be like without you. You have touched my heart in ways no one could ever comprehend. I love
thinking of you and I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
Every day I wake up thanking God for you. You have given me so much, and I know I will be able to give back all that you
have given me. You have been my guiding light when I was lost. You have been my comforter through all my trials and sorrow.
You have been my rock.
Sometimes I feel lost and out of touch, but when you’re there, I feel safe. Your voice soothes me. I could sit here and try to tell
you just how I feel, but I can’t find the words other than I am ecstatic.
I want to tell you that the love I have for you is undying. It is a love that is strong and enduring and will stand the test of time. I
truly feel blessed that you have become a part of my life, and I cannot wait for the day that we can join our lives together. I
want to lie next to you at night and fall asleep in your arms. I want to wake to your beautiful smile. I want to share in your joys
and sorrows. I want to be your everything, because you are everything to me.
I promise to always love you and always hold you in my heart. I will always be there for you when you need me, and I will love
you no matter what life brings us. You are my soul mate, and I vow to love you all eternity. I love you, babe.
I am going now to the Embassy and the Tax office, wish me well honey. I will get in touch with you when I get back. Please
take good care of yourself for me and thank you for every thing.
Yours,
Ben
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Topic: My Co-Pilot
Dear Co-pilot,
My dearest love, thank you so much for all the lovely messages. They always make me look down my heart and see you
there. Today I sat and thought, with every breath I took, of only you. I remember when we first found each other like it was
yesterday. Two people in two different worlds, 9 long years that I lost my family and was all alone, not knowing what life had in
store for me. And then an opening of the door and there you stand, a woman with a heart the size of the heavens above. One
day lead to the next, and then days turned into weeks and and so did our love grow and keep growing, we made a family.
Today, you are so far away and I’m not being able to hold you, kiss you, or even able to tell you I love you every day, as we go
through the hardest thing we have ever had to go through in the past weeks we have been together. Yes, I miss you and can’t
wait to get on the flight taking me to you, to be able to wrap my arms around you and hold you close to my heart. To lay next to
you in bed and bring an end to the misery of empty pillow. Days go by and nights get longer. It makes me stronger and
stronger. One thing I want you to know is I love you and you will forever be in my heart.
Love you forever,
Ben
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TOPIC: IF THAT IS WHAT IT TAKES!
Good morning my love. I think the song below and the lyrics says my way of waking you up today, into a world of solid
promises. I am here in the office thinking of nothing but you my dearest. I am missing you more than I can explain. I place eyes
on the clock and keep watching as it moves. There is nothing I want more, all I want is to be on the flight taking me to you.
Play the song, read the lyrics and open your heart, you will find me holding your hands and looking straight into your
bewitching eyes. I love you so!
http://www.youtube.com/watch? v=D8ZOJj5ni44
“If That’s What It Takes”
You’re the bravest of hearts, you’re the strongest of souls
You’re my light in the dark, you’re the place I call home
You can say it’s all right, but I know that you’re breaking up inside
I see it in your eyes
Even you face the night afraid and alone
That’s why I’ll be there
When the storm rises up, when the shadows descend
Ev’ry beat of my heart, ev’ry day without end
Ev’ry second I live, that’s the promise I make
Baby, that’s what I’ll give, if that’s what it takes
If that’s what it takes
You can sleep in my arms, you don’t have to explain
When your heart’s crying out, baby, whisper my name
‘Cause I’ve reached out for you when the thunder is crashing up above
You’ve given me your love
When your smile like the sun that shines through the pain
That’s why I’ll be there
When the storm rises up, when the shadows descend
Ev’ry beat of my heart, ev’ry day without end
I will stand like a rock, I will bend till I break
Till there’s no more to give, if that’s what it takes
I will risk everything, I will fight, I will bleed
I will lay down my life, if that’s what you need
Ev’ry second I live, that’s the promise I make
Baby, that’s what I’ll give, if that’s what it takes
Through the wind and the rain, through the smoke and the fire
When the fear rises up, when the wave’s ever higher
I will lay down my heart, my body, my soul
I will hold on all night and never let go
Ev’ry second I live, that’s the promise I make
Baby, that’s what I’ll give, if that’s what it takes
If that’s what it takes
Every day
If that’s what it takes
Every day
I’ll love you forever and ever …..
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Dear …..,
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It has not been but a short time of getting to know one another and we are totally crazy about the other. I asked you if you
believed in soul mates and you said that you believed that God does make a special someone from every man. Whether that
man finds that someone he was created for or not, I know I was created for you.
Here I am, heart and soul, confessing to the world how I feel about you. I would walk to the ends of the earth to meet you, and
even though we are yet to meet, I already began the journey for love, for you, for us. Funny how love works in people’s lives. I
sure never expected to neither meet nor find someone as amazing as you. You have touched my heart in so many ways and
words couldn’t even begin to explain to you the love I feel for you. Without further making it harder on the two of us to be
together, I need to tell you that I love you and I am here waiting and hoping a miracle happened for me to get on the plan. I
have shed tears but they won’t put me on the flight. I have my fingers crossed, waiting and waiting. Dreaming of you always …
I want you yesterday, now and forever. love you.
Love always,
Ben
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TOPIC: THANK YOU MY LOVE
Hi Honey – How are you today ? Did you ever get some sleep last night ? I hope so. If you were dreaming of us I know for
sure that you DID NOT sleep ! LOL Was it good ? Sorry I was not all there. LOL
I have prayed last night and again this morning —I asked God and Archangel Michael to surround you- your work -your house
and family with 65 million Angels to protect and guide you. Stop and take a moment to visualize this honey – – wall to wall
Angels everywhere –just for YOU.
You are so very awesome honey -do you know that ? You are sweet -kind-generous -loving-adorable -brilliant-intelligent-funny
– beautiful -sexy – sensual – and all the good stuff. You my dear put a smile on my face everyday !!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL
Thank-You for your unconditional Love
Thank-you for accepting me for me
Thank-you for accepting where I am in my life today
Thank-you for accepting Love from Me to You
Thank-you for accepting to be there for me
Thank-you for being You
Thank-you for wanting to move in with me
Thank-you for pausing to read my profile
Thank-you for your Trust
Thank-you for your Faith
Thank-you for your loyalty
Thank-you for your sweet words in your e-mails
Thank-you for your sweet words on the phone
Thank-you for all your hugs
Thank-you for all your kisses
Thank-you for all the beautiful emails you sent to Me
Thank-you for your generous Spirit
Thank-you for all the places that we are going to go
Thank-you for wanting to go with me to Paris to meet my mom
Thank-you for all your smiles
Thank-you for all the fun we are having now
Thank-you for your caring Heart
Thank-you for your wisdom
Thank-you for your strength
Thank-you for being my wife and life
Thank-you for bringing me home to you
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Thank-you for accepting your new life with me
Thank-you for all your affection
Thank-you for all your attention
Thank-you for your humor
Thank-you for your laughs
Thank-you for your friendship
Thank-you for being My best friend
Thank-you for being a shelter to my soul and spirit
Thank-you for your patience
Thank-you for your Soul
Thank-you for your beautiful eyes
Thank-you for your Faith in God
Thank-you for your concern for me
Thank-you for all your empathy
Thank-you for accepting my past
Thank-you for sharing yourself
Thank-you for sharing your cares and concerns
Thank-you for all the flowers you are sending to me
Thank-you for all the shared responsibilities in our home
Thank-you for allowing me serve your coffee in the mornings
Thank-you for the wonderful passionate Love we give each other
Thank-you for being the best Lover I have EVER had
Thank-you for all the walks on the beach
Thank-you for all the candlelit romantic dinners
Thank-you for the cruise we are going on
Thank-you for going parasailing with me
Thank-you for riding bikes with me
Thank-you for cooking for me
Thank-you for your financial help
Thank-you for the trip to world ends
Thank-you for the trip to see the Northern Lights
Thank-you for being such a gentlewoman at all times
Thank-you for loving my world
Thank-you for making this year the BEST IN MY LIFE
Thank-you for the beautiful Christmas we are going to have this year
Thank-you for wanting to turn my $30 million into $30 Billion
Thank-you for listening to my investment ideas
Thank-you for accepting the gifts and talents God gave to you
Thank-you for every step you took in Life to get to Me
Thank-you for being the Best of the Best
Thank-you for all your Love notes you leave me
Thank-you for waiting the Long years for me
Thank-you for opening your Heart to Love again
Thank-you for making Love in the shower
Thank-you for making Love in the pool
Thank-you for making Love in the Hot Tub
Thank-you for making Love anywhere & everywhere LOL
Thank-you for going shopping with me
Thank-you for your equal partnership
Thank-you for being my second half
Thank-you for being my Better half
Thank-you for the expertise you bring to them
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Thank-you for your encouragement to walk into the future
Thank-you for allowing me always open the car door for you
Thank-you for the beautiful wedding suite
Thank-you for our beautiful wedding
Thank-you for being my wife
Thank-you for your faithfulness
Thank-you for your loyalty
Thank-you for our new home
Thank-you for all the beautiful furnishings
Thank-you for keeping the Faith
Thank-you for the beauty you bring into my life
Thank-you for bringing out the Best in Me
Thank-you for the beautiful engagement ring
THANK-YOU SO MUCH HONEY FOR EVERYTHING -YOU ARE THE BEST OF THE BEST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I love you more today than yesterday!
Your Angel Man
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Dearest One,
Just had time to check my emails now and I just want to quickly reply to your message. Thank you for taking the time to read
my long emails and replying to them. I know this isn’t our make but our destiny. We didn’t join the dating site because we
already know we are going to meet one another but we joined because we are looking for our soul mates, I mean one created
from our ribs and we are so lucky to find us. god, thank you! I don’t think there’s is something else I would have asked of. You
are the best thing happening to me in many years honey and I pray that soon, I will sit in front of you as you watch me cares
you and tell you sweet words from my innermost heart. This is the way I want to live for the rest of my life, to be happy with my
hobby, with you. I also love that fact that both you and I will retire and do nothing but enjoy and celebrate each moment of our
lives together. Have you thought of where in the world you want us to live? I want you alone to make that decision because
honestly, wherever you will be happy is where I want to live for the rest of my life. Our love is unmistakeable, it is unbreakable,
it is untouchable. It will live and grow each second of our lives and the world will write a story of us. You see that kind of love
that makes you feel like you are just somewhere under beautiful trees, dancing to the beautiful melody of the leaves. And if the
world write a story of our love, we will be known until the end of time. I hope you can see inside my heart now, you and you
alone lives in there.
I love you …… and I want you to say that word to me next time we talk on phone.
Please do not over work yourself, leave some things for us to do together when I return.
Long kisses and hugs!
Your Husband,
Ben.
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TOPIC: GREATEST HEART ROBBER!
Hello the great heart robber (lol),
I want you to know that everything you do for me reassures me that I am appreciated. I want you to know that you mean so
much to me. From the first day we found each other, we were determined to get to know one another. From that very moment,
I knew it was you and we quickly grew on getting to know each other. I want you to know that every moment since that first day
holds a special place in my heart. I was afraid at first that if I let you in I’d regret it, but I haven’t regretted a single moment. I
trust you, and I know you’ll be there for me no matter what. I trust that you’ll be faithful to me and that you won’t hurt my heart.
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You tell me how you want only the best for me. You tell me how precious I am. You tell me how you love every shape of my
body. You just make me feel extra special; make me feel a sense of warmth inside. I want you to know that I love you for a
reason which can never be known because my love for you is unconditional! I love you for being so caring and genuine. I love
you for everything you’ve done for me. I love you for the happiness and joy you bring to my life. I love you for you! We needed
good communication and we have done excellently on that. By being together soon, holding hands, and cuddling, we can
sense each other’s thoughts and inner feelings. I want you to know that I want the best for you as well. I want you to succeed
and I want all your dreams and fantasies to come true. I know that in me you see a matured man full of kindness,
understanding, and compassion. An adult with an open-heart. A man who puts a smile on your face everyday. I will be that
man who’s there for you just as you’re there for me, the one who encourages you through life’s ups and downs. But ultimately,
I want to be the man who is your everything. Not a second goes by that I don’t think about you. You have brought so much joy
to my life and you give me so much to look forward to when I wake up every morning. I want you to know that I sincerely
appreciate you and I can never tell you enough that “I LOVE YOU!”
Already you got my head swollen and my stomach full of butterflies. You make me feel like entering into these words and just
come out from your computer when you log on into your email to check this message. I really need to exercise myself enough
to receive all the hugs awaiting me. I wonder what to call you my love, I think you are the number one criminal in the world.
You are a perfect ‘heart robber’ for stealing all my heart without leaving even a space for me. How wonderful you are my heart
robber! LOL.
Please take good care of yourself and have a splendid day.
Thinking of you~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ XOXOXOXOXOXOX
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I MUST STICK WITH YOU FOREVER
SWEETHEART, IT’S THE 1:20 P.M HERE AND I CAN’T BREATH. WHAT EXACTLY AM I DOING? I AM THINKING ABOUT
YOU!!! HONESTYLY, I AM THE LUCKIEST MAN ON EARTH. YOU ARE WORTH ALL OTHER 999BILLION WOMEN ON
THIS PLANET. BABY, YOU MEAN MORE THAN LIFE TO ME. BELOW IS ALL I CAN SAY TO REACH DOWN YOUR
HEART. I MUST STICK WITH YOU FOREVER AND EVER.http://www.youtube.com/ watch?v=-ZlajjbX94g
I don’t want to go another day
So I’m telling you exactly what is on my mind
Seems like everybody is breaking up
Throwing their love away
I know I got a good thing right here
That’s why I say (Hey)
CHORUS:
Nobody’s gonna love me better
I’m must stick with you
Forever
Nobody’s gonna take me higher
I’m must stick with you
You know how to appreciate me
I’m must stick with you
My baby
Nobody ever made me feel this way
I’m must stick with you
I don’t want to go another day
So I’m telling you exactly what is on my mind
See the way we ride
In our private lives
Ain’t nobody getting in between
I want you to know that you’re the only one for me
And I say
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CHORUS:
Nobody gonna love me better
I’m must stick with you
Forever
Nobody gonna take me higher
I’m must stick with you
You know how appreciate me
I’m must stick with you
My baby
Nobody ever made me feel this way
I’m must stick with you
And man
Ain’t nothing else I can need
And man
I’m singing ’cause you’re so, so into me
I got you
We’ll be making love endlessly
I’m with you
Baby, you’re with me
So don’t you worry about
People hanging around
They ain’t bringing us down
I know you and you know me
And that’s all that counts
So don’t you worry about
People hanging around
They ain’t bringing us down
I know you and you know me
And that’s why I say
CHORUS:
Nobody gonna love me better
I’m must stick with you
Forever
Nobody gonna take me higher
I’m must stick with you
You know how appreciate me
I’m must stick with you
My baby
Nobody ever made me feel this way
I’m must stick with you
GOOD NIGHT SWEETEST OF SOULS!!!
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Dear, I love you! And I love you! You have done for me, what no other person can do. You have loved me the way no one
can ever do. You have brought to me, a kind of happiness no one can ever bring. You have walked with me in the darkest
night no one else could dare. You have crossed with me, the most dangerous bridge. You have shown me, a commitment no
one else could ever show. You have proved beyond doubt the reason for me to wanting to wake up every day. You have said
to me, the best words ever. I feel like someone in paradise as the King of Kings and you the Queen of Queens. To love you
through eternity, is no doubt.
Good morning greatest of lovers.
It’s Ben waking you with a smile.
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Dearest LO,
Baby, you have been gone for almost a century (lol), and only yesterday, your voice tells me you are always with me. I wish
you were right here with me now so it wouldn’t be so hard for me to lay lonely in bed. I can’t help but to love you with every
beat of my heart, and with every ounce of my soul. You are the absolute best thing to ever happen in my life. And, you are the
most sensitive, caring, tender, considerate, loving woman I have ever met. You are simply amazing. I would never dream of
letting you go, and I wouldn’t be able to live another breath in this world if I didn’t have you on my side, as my wife, lover, and
friend.
I know you believe that good things come to those who wait, but my wonder is … why does it take so long for those good
things to arrive, and why does the wait have to come with all these obstacles of hard and testing times? All I have right now
are my dreams of you, so I will close now to dream of us, and wait for that precious tomorrow when I can wake up to my dream
come true — YOU!! Stay strong, and I will always love you, and I will wait as long as it takes. Because my love for you won’t
change in a year – or – twenty, not even a life time. It is you and me, Jo-Ann, forever. Thank you for loving me; I have never
truly lived until the day I received your love. I just can’t wait until I get the chance to live again, so please take good care of
yourself. I love you always.
Love always,
Ben Gold
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Dearest LO,
Good morning to you. It’s the beginning of another brand new day and I was thinking about you, as usual.. No matter how
much things screwed up, you were determined to keep our love alive. I’ll never be able to thank you enough for that. You are
the reason I live, breathe, love and laugh. You mean everything to me.
I want you to know how much I sincerely love the times we’ve spent communicating. It means so much to me. It truly seems
like I’ve known you forever and I honestly can’t imagine life without you now. There will be no looking back, no second
thoughts and no regrets. I want you and need only you … and that love will only grow stronger. Do not be scared my love.
Sometimes life hits you with unexpected things that take you totally by surprise. All I can say is you’re the best surprise life has
given me and your capacity for love, caring, and understanding never ceases to amaze me. I’ve truly been blessed by finding
you and I’ll never let you go!
Your VE,
B’G
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NB: YOU CAN INCREASE OR REDUCE THE AMOUNT ON BILLS DEPENDING ON THE WORTH OF YOU MAYES. MAKE
SURE YOU ARE SENDING THE LOVE EMAILS BEFORE EACH BILLING FORMAT. ALL THE BEST! THE BILLING
FORMAT CAN GENERATE ABOUT 50K FOR YOU IF THE MAYE IS CAPABLE ENOUGH AND CAN GENERATE OVER
100K IF THE MAYE IS VERY RICH. YOU ONLY NEED TO CHANGE THE AMOUNT ON BILLING FORMAT. ONCE YOU
ARE DONE WITH THESE FORMATS AND YOUR WOMAN IS STILL CAPABLE, MAIN BILLING TO HAMMER STARTS BUT
THAT IS MORE PROFESSIONAL SO CALL ME IN (LOL). ABI U WON DEY CHOP ALONE? HAHAHAH!
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How are you doing my dear, how have you been? Thank you for writing me. I just got back from Johannesburg Hall of
Johannesburg for the meeting. After a long day of discussion with the professionals who are to instal the electrical pipes at the
deck of the building, they have given me a condition that has set my brain resonating for hours.
This is the most critical part and the very last difficult stage of my project and I need only professionals to get this fixed. Like I
told you before, it would take them three days, non stop, to get it all done. 12 people out of the total 25 professionals would be
working from morning till very late at night while the remaining 13 people would resume at night and work till morning. Once
they are done, the last stage is the fixing of the POP to cover the pipes and that would be done by the local labor I already
have. It would take another three long days, non stop, to fix the POP so I have a total of only six days to complete this project.
How I wish that could be the next six days. I’m in a shock as I write. I don’t know why these people, I mean every labor you can
find here, love money more than any thing else. Yes, they are very good at what they do but life is not just about only money.
One has to be considerate at times and have human sympathy.
I hate to tell you that out of the $10million I brought here for this mighty project, I am having only $15k left with me and these
people are charging $2k each for the 25 of them which makes a total of $50,000.00. I told them I would give them all the $15k I
have left and pay them the remaining balance the very moment I get my payment because my agreement with the Abu Dahbi
is to get my payment the same day I complete this project. I told them I would sign whatever paper they may want and gave
them my word. We had this conversation for over four hours and when we were all too tired, we had shifted the meeting to
tomorrow. They concluded today that I have to pay a minimum deposit of $40k and I can pay the remaining $10k at the end of
six days.
Since I left them, I have been thinking so hard and asking different questions. What if these people don’t agree with the $15k I
have? What if they change their minds and say they need the whole money? I have closed all my accounts and got loans and
sold some of my properties to come up with the $10million I brought here and there is no one else I can turn to expect for
Nelson. But what if Nelson says he’s down for now? What would I do? I have invested so much, I mean I have put all I have in
this project and this token amount should not delay my success at this point of my life. Never! It should not draw me back
because I just want to complete this and retire and enjoy for the rest of my life. You may not know, I will be spending my life
and eternity with you. All that I have and will ever have is also yours because I believe we are one. We will resume a world of
laughter, happiness, joy, fulfillment of heart as soon as I arrive. I just want us together every moment of our lives. Life is too
short my love, we can’t spend all our life working. Once I’m done here, we wouldn’t have to worry over money again for ever
and ever so all I want is you and I together anywhere and every where. To love one another the way the world has never
experienced.
Just you may wish to know, I attached some pictures of a big project of one of the leaders of the people I am working for; the
Abu Dahbi’s. Any one could think it is a hotel but no, it is a house. We built the house for Sheikh Zayed bin Sultan Al Nahyan,
the former ruler of Abu Dahbi. I was part of this huge project, worked on the bathrooms and toilets. We built the house 5yrs
ago. The last two pictures is an Audi A8 car, made out of pure silver for one of the Sheikhs. These people are extremely rich
and pay a lot but they don’t pay deposit especially on big projects. Like I told you before, they will pay three times the money
invested after the project. I really can’t wait to finish this project and be with you honey. I want to give you things you never
dreamed of.
Even though these people spoil my mood today, I feel different since I got to write you and I am getting happy just because I
looked down my heart and find you smiling at me. I love you so much than words can ever express. Just know that you mean
a lot to me ok? And I really appreciate you dear. We are such a perfect match. The joy I feel in recent days is my best. Please
let me know how you are doing.
Your Husband,
Ben
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2. TOPIC: BACK FROM MEETING
Happy day to you my love,
“Hi, Baby, I love you,” that’s always how we start. Those five simple words always bring a smile to my face and song to my
heart. I am just writing this here because it’s the only way I know that I can shout to the world I love you!
The day you came into my life a miracle happened. One minute I was resigned to the fact that love was a part of my past,
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something although painful to think about, was nothing more than mere memory. And then there you were.
You opened my heart in ways it had never been opened before. You awakened a part of me that had lay dormant all of life.
Although I had loved and been loved before, never had it been so intense and so deep as what we feel for each other. This
much I am sure of, we share a love so true that I have never before experienced the true joy of complete empowering, soul-felt
love as we share.
Dear, today was more brief as the professions would not discuss any further but concluded they won’t start any work until they
have the first $40k in hand. I have no choice, I contacted Nelson immediately and glory be to God, he would help me with $15k
with the $15k I have with me which means I would have $30k by tomorrow when Nelson sends the money. I also have a pure
white gold wrist watch that I bought for $7k when I was in Dubai. I will take it to the pawn shop tomorrow and see what I can
get on it. But even if I get the same $7k, I will still be looking for $3k. Who else do I turn to? I have thought over this again and
again but what can I do? If I can tell a friend my problem and he listens and ready to help, why won’t I be able to share it with
my own wife. I believe from that very moment we fell in love, we have become two bodies that dwell in only one single soul.
Your smiles and your worries have become mine and so have mine become yours. I believe by now, even if the whole world
would be against me or you, you and me only will comprehend and stand by each other. The path to success can never be
walked alone but who do we walk with? Who could be there when it seems like hell was let loose upon us? Of course, our
second half. It would take only death to separate one single soul. You are my love so understand what I mean here more than
I have said it because really, there can never be any word to say exactly what I mean. Only powerful minds in love will
understand this.
My love, here I come on my kneels, I will never ask you any thing if I have other options. Though you come first but I hate to
take my woman through stress. Here is our trial time honey, we should be one all through the thick and thin of life. We will
have a good testimony to tell in only six days once I have the complete money and let these professionals resume work. One
thing you must have in mind is, I will refund all your money the same day I get over. My appreciation to every one will last
forever but most of all, my greatest appreciation will always be yours, I love you. All I need is $3k but even if you can’t help with
every thing, I will be grateful for whatever you can afford to loan me for now. Please, I beg you honey, I just can’t afford to have
this job delayed despite my long hard work.
The comfort I feel in knowing that we can disagree, we can get through the roughest of times and still know in our hearts that
we can’t live without each other is what makes it even more special. “It wouldn’t matter if it didn’t matter…” Baby, you matter to
me and I know in my heart I truly matter to you. I am secure in your love as I know you are in mine. What more could we ask
for than to be truly loved as we do each other and have found the one we have both been searching for all our lives.
So, in closing, let me shout this to all…, “I LOVE YOU, ……, WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL!” HAPPY DAY TO YOU.
Please get back to me as quickly as you can so I could call the head of the professionals and let him know when I want them
to resume work. Thank you for being there for me.
Love always,
Ben
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NB: ONCE YOU HAVE SORTED OUT THE 10K ABOVE (DON’T BE GREEDY, IF SHE DOESN’T HAVE UP TO THAT AMT,
BILL HER WHATEVER SHE CAN AFFORD AND TELL HER NELSON WILL HAVE TO LOOK FOR THE REMAINING). THE
SIXTH DAY AFTER THAT, LET HER KNOW YOU ARE DONE AND THAT THE INSPECTION TEAM OF ABU’DAHBI WILL
BE COMING FOR THEIR LAST INSPECTION THE SEVENTH DAY AND THEN YOU CAN GET YOUR PAYMENT THE
SAME DAY. THE SEVENTH DAY, SEND THE MESSAGE BELOW.
Topic: Urgent!
My love,
Been on this computer for hours thinking of how to tell you this but what can I do? The only person I can share my life with is
you, you come first and then Nelson. You are the second half that completes me. The inspection team of Abu Dahbi just left as
at the time I called you and they brought my check but they couldn’t give it to me based on little changes that occurred in their
project. I was supposed to use secure steel roller-doors for all the entrances to the warehouses but I couldn’t use that for all of
them based on changes in budget and market value difference between the time I made my budget and the time I went to get
them at the market. I was only able to use these steel roller-doors for the warehouses in Cape Town, Pretoria, Durban, Port
Elizabeth (Eastern Cape), Kimberley (Northen Cape) and Polokwane (Limpopo) while I used aluminum roller-doors for the
warehouses in Nelspruit (Mpumalanga) and Johannesburg.
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After reviewing the whole work, they questioned the difference in doors and I tried to explain every thing, hoping they would
comprehend but instead, they brought out our agreement, reminded me of what I promised to use and never to default. I spent
time trying to make them understand that it was the market cost of these things that dragged me into such decision but yet,
they wouldn’t comprehend. I again asked if they could pay a part of my money and the question that followed was, ‘sir Ben
Gold, why are we paying you $30Million if we need someone to use our own money to execute the project?’ I told them I really
do understand they are paying three times my invested capital but as the situation is, I would need few thousands to change
the doors. We argued over this for long and at a point in time, they almost got incensed with my explanation and concluded
they only came with my check as issued from the head quarter in Dubai and no way for them to pay a part of the money. They
also advised that I get the job done as quickly as possible so I don’t get penalized for long delay.
Right now, they left with my check after almost giving it to me. They said I will get it in few days if I fix the loop hole in their
project. I called the door company and an additional $13,899 is needed if I have to change these doors.
Dear, I really do understand what it feels like to know that a man you share a soul with is going through all these. Right from
that moment we fell in love, our worries, our problems, our happiness, our joy, our life has become one. Nelson is such a good
friend honey, immediately I told him, within the few hours I spent thinking of how to tell you, he went right away and took out
the last $5000 in his wife’s account plus he pawned his old Harley bike for a few thousands and sent $8500 already. I couldn’t
believe it when he called and said he sent $8500 and even apologized that he would have sent all if he could. I thanked him
and show serious appreciation. I really do owe Nelson big time.
Tomorrow morning, I will call the door company, whether they would accept this amount or not, I don’t know. You can see
honey, the road to success is such a rough road. Nothing good in life comes easy!!! Just as our life is about to start, it’s the
best that can ever happen to us but see the road, it’s kind of rough. But I know in the end of every struggle, it will all be fine. I
keep asking myself ‘what if I don’t have you and Nelson to stand by me this period?’ And the answer I get is ‘perhaps it would
have been mission impossible’. I have worked too hard and too long to jeopardize this great success. Now I believe that the
greater the success on the road, the longer the ladder one has to climb. Because I have you, because you love me, because
you believe in God and the angels, I see us climb this success ladder together. I see us together before the end of this week.
I want you to know I love you with all my life and I appreciate all you have done for me and I promise to pay back all your
money and start a new life with you in a short while. I can only wish the door company accepts the $8,500 or would you be
able to send $1,500 today to make it $10,000 so I could at least beg the door company with that and promise them that I will
balance them the remaining $3,899 tomorrow once the door is fixed and I get my money? Please love, I am sorry all these is
what we can’t run from, but once all is settled, nothing will hinder us again.
I love you so much honey. Missing you so bad and I want to be with you honey.
Kisses and hugs.
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TOPIC: PLEASE ATTEND TO THIS QUICKLY!!!
My forever one,
I think the best is to put this into writing. At exactly 10.30 a.m today, I was in the bank with my check and joined the short
queue. I know the amount is too big to cash on the counter but I needed to give it a try to know their procedure and if they
would just cash out some of the money for me and put the remaining into an account I would also be able to operate when I
return to the States. I was dressed in my collar shirt, well ironed to leave attractive gators and my pant trouser. I tried like never
before to look so cool like someone who is about to get married (lol). And really, I am, to you, …… (lol). I mean I felt so relaxed
and confident remembering how much I have on my check. I have never made up to this amount in my whole life. Please my
love, I will never share the copy of my check with any one in this world. Only you and me know about it so please do not show
it to any one. I trust you with all my life and I know you will never disappoint me.
The banking hall was so comfortable with the queue moving on and on, it was finally my turn to tender my check and I did with
a short smile. The cashier, who has been frowning to all customers before me, looked at my check and saw the amount on it
and she really amazed me with a very pleasant smile. That reminds me of every time I get to check my account balance at any
bank before this project, I always get a smile for bankers are money lovers. Do not think I ever dated any of them (lol), I never
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did.
The woman said I should have my sit and she went in to where I don’t know. After some couple of minutes, she came back to
her section and the security man walked towards me and quietly said the manager would like to see me. Then, I was even
more happy because I felt I was about to see the only one who would handle my case with the best attention. I felt so excited. I
mean, I have been thinking and dreaming of being on the plane taking me to you since yesterday.
When I got in, he said to me to have a sit and held my check looking at it again and again. He asked how a visitor in the
country is able to get so much money so I explained the project I just completed in their country and he quickly apologized. I
then said I needed some of the cash for my flight and some other stuffs while the remaining should be put in an account I can
access when I get to the States. The manager said he only wanted me to speak before explaining some things to me and then
he proceeded; mister Ben, the check you are holding is a Region’s Bank check which has only few branches in the United
States and no where else in the world. He also said my check is like a cash because it is a cashier’s check but the only thing is
there is no way for them to process a check having such a huge amount of money belonging to a United States Bank here in
SA. He said if I can find my way to the States and get into Region’s Bank with the check, I will get cash instantly. But it would
even be difficult and take long time for a another bank in the USA to cash the check same day except for Region’s Bank. And
finally, he concluded that I can only get an instant cash in Region’s Bank in the States.
At that point, what he was saying wasn’t what I wanted to hear so I just grabbed my check from him and walked out. I went on
to another different bank and on to another one and on to another one and on to five different banks and I heard the same
statement. Dear, you can’t imagine how I was sweating inside air condition. I felt so sad and so I decided to go and see the
ticketing agent who booked my flight.
since I was not having a dime to pay him, I had to sit at his office and explain my situation to him. I never told him of the check
I got because I don’t trust these people. I only told him I will send his money as soon as I get to the States but he will never
comprehend. He threatened to cancel my flight if I don’t pay him. I told him to still reserve it and that I will get back to him. My
love, I have faith that the god who protected us this far will also help us on the remaining part of our journey. Please let your
mind be at peace now because I already got what I came here to work for. My check is in my own hand and that is a
guarantee that you will get all you have ever loaned me or will ever loan me. I mean I don’t expect you to panic now regardless
of the amount I may need. The flight is only South African Rand, R17,468.00 ($2,257.03). I am supposed to pay $60 for taxi
and $180 for the truck to move my equipments to the airport. This brings every thing to a sum of $2,497.03. Though I have a
$1,980 deficit at the hotel but I can still beg the manager to allow me pay when I get over and I know he would listen. He
seems the only reasonable person I know here. Please honey, I don’t want to remain here. No matter how hard this has
become, just relax your mind, it will all end in a matter of hours when I arrive. My luggage is all packed. I only need to pay the
agent and move my things to the airport.
Thank you for your support right from the beginning till now and forever. I know we will never give up on each other. I want to
touch you, hug you and feel your breath on me starting from tomorrow on.
PLEASE ATTEND TO THIS QUICKLY!!! I wait for your call or email. Missing you already….
Your Hero,
Ben.
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NB: ONCE THE ABOVE BILL IS PAYED. THE NEXT DAY, SEND THE MESSAGE BELOW
Dear Hon,
Good morning to you. Thank you so much for all your love, care and support. Today, I woke up beside you. I felt your touch,
your breath, your early morning smile and kiss. I wish I didn’t have to miss you. If only you could be with me always. I know I
could never be any happier. But then again, I know that tomorrow I will be able to spend my every waking moment with you. I
even miss you when I am sleeping!
I love you, babe. You are my now and ever, my only love, and I thank you for being so kind with my heart. Hopefully, in less
than 48hrs, I won’t have to hate missing you. I’m going to the warehouse now to arrange for how my equipments would be
transported to the airport. Then I will come back to the hotel room to relax again and prepare for the long 32h45mins journey. I
will call you when I’m about leaving for the airport. Feeling you in my hands already (lol).
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Love Always,
Ben
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NB: DEPENDING ON THE FLIGHT DEPARTURE TIME, MAKE SURE YOU CALL HER WHEN ITS TIME YOU ARE AT THE
AIRPORT AND TELL HER YOU ARE ON QUEUE TO CHECKING IN. AFTER 45MINS, CALL HER AND TELL HER YOU
ARE ON CHECKING AND THAT YOU WILL CALL HER ONCE YOU GET INTO THE PLANE BEFORE IT TAKES OFF. DO
NOT CALL HER AGAIN UNTIL NEXT MORNING AND THEN SEND THE MESSAGE BELOW THE NEXT MORNING.
Topic: Delay
Darling, I have been trying to reach you on phone but I guess network has been a jerk. I am just coming back from the South
Africa tax office, Johannesburg with the customs officer who is to find out about my tax payment on the equipments. Last night
while I was already in the plane and my and equipments were till under check, just when the flight was about to get ready for
us to take off. A custom man came in and called my name, they asked of my tax clearance on the equipments since I told
them I used the equipments in their country working on a building project for over one year (14 Months). They wanted to call
the tax office same time to verify if I am good to go but they were closed so they delayed me till this morning and promised that
I would fly on the next flight. Right now, we just got back from the tax office where I was checked and billed. They said during
the course of such a big project, I ought to be paying R8,961.91 ($1,099.00 USD) which is about R116,504.83 ($14,287.00) for
thirteen months. The tax office is not a body I can negotiate with so I didn’t even try to tell them I will pay them once I clear my
check because I don’t want any one else to know I have a check of such a huge amount. I am at the airport now thinking of
moving back to the hotel room and explain things to them if they would allow me stay for the time being. I have my luggage but
I don’t know if they would release my equipments to me. I asked if I could leave the equipments and then come back for it, they
said that is not an option, the worst of it is that each day my equipments stays at the airport, I pay additional R350 ($42.7602
USD).
I am perplexed right now! I feel like I’m in a very wrong country!! I don’t know what to do!!! I shed tears but it won’t put me on
the plane so I stopped. We have few hours to get together and this kind of thing is happening, dear, please call me, I need
your sweet voice to calm down my heart before I develop high blood pressure. I want you to forget about this tax bill for now,
let us put our minds off it and first get myself into the hotel room to have some hours sleep. It’s been a long day full of stress.
Maybe when I wake up we can then talk and think of what to do. For now, I don’t want us to think of this because the rate at
which it hurts could lead us into another bad situation. I just don’t want any of us to die of these stress because we still need
each other for many more years. I love you so!
Your Husband,
Ben.
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DO NOT COLLECT ALL THE MONEY YOU BILL FOR THE TAX. TELL HER YOU MEET AN AGENT WHO IS WILLING TO
HELP YOU IF YOU CAN GET A CERTAIN AMOUNT, SAY 10K OUT OF 14KPLUS. THE VERY DAY YOU SORT OUT THE
10K WITH HER, SEND THIS.
I am emailing you now because honestly, since I got back to the hotel room, I sat and prayed. My Goodness! You are the best
woman any man can have. I know I will spend my whole life LOVING YOU, thanking you and appreciating you. If words could
be made physical, I will make the most beautiful words for you my LO. A whole dictionary is not enough to say how wonderful
you are. You are like the rainbow, only the lucky ones see you when you come out. I mean your kind are never common, only
one in every million women.
Tomorrow, I should be able to get my flight confirmation to you. Oh, that reminds me, thank you for the extra, it really helped
sorting things I never expected. The agent says it took longer than expected so I had to pay additional $300. First thing on
Monday, I am going to see James who promised to help with the $10,000.00. Also, the man at the lawyer’s office called me
today and said I should check on Monday. You see honey, good news here and there. I can’t wait honey, I really can’t!
Sleep well my beautiful LO. Very soon, we won’t be sleeping alone and waking up alone any longer.
Longest Kisses and hugs ever.
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Your Husband,
Ben.